After a spinal cord injury, through rehabilitation, you can generally achieve self-care in a wheelchair, learn how to handle urination and defecation, and walk in a small range using a lower extremity support to hold a crutch. In addition to rehabilitation, there is no better way, we understand your feelings. Although the lower limbs are disabled, the upper limbs are normal and the brain is not injured, so you can do many things. It takes a long time (years or years) to recover from a spinal cord injury, so it is best to exercise while learning new knowledge and skills to be able to serve the community and live independently in the future. The current president of the China Disabled Persons’ Federation, Heidi Zhang, is also a paraplegic and wheelchair-bound person. I am also a disabled person who goes to work in a wheelchair every day, but I am also a happy person. In addition, there are now many preferential policies for people with disabilities. After one year of injury, you can apply for a disability certificate at your local disability association and enjoy local preferential policies, such as living allowance for the severely disabled. The process of rehabilitation is a process of reinventing oneself. I hope that the family can be more supportive and encouraging, so that we can get through this difficult time together.