If you ask a man what he is most afraid of? It must be the fear of not being able to do it! You are ready to have sex, but you find that your “little brother” is not under your control, and you are ashamed to talk about erection problems. Today we will talk about how to do if your “little brother” can’t get hard. The actual fact is that the actual people are commonly known as “impotence”, refers to the male in the sexual life, the ding can not erect or erection is not long enough. Occasionally once or twice the unexpected situation can be explained as a bad state, but long-term, not only their own stress, partners will also suspect themselves. Impotence is a common male disease, often treated in modern clinics with oral Western medicine, but it is prone to recurrence, and impotence has certain secrecy and ethical restrictions, making it difficult to carry out many treatments that act directly on the penis. The situation can be conditioned by your own life up. 1. Find the right cause ① Psychological reasons: emotional abnormalities (such as low excitability, tension, fear, stress, etc.), mental health problems (such as anxiety, depression, etc.), mental illness, etc., can trigger erectile dysfunction, and this group of people can first look at their own conditioning. Adjust yourself in life for a period of time, you can first consider the use of some fast erection-promoting drugs, such as type 5 phosphodiesterase inhibitors, which is often referred to as Viagra, taken one hour before sex, successful sex a few times, the psychological shackles naturally open, the situation will be improved. If the adjustment is more difficult, there is no significant progress, you should go to a regular hospital to find a male specialist consultation. ②Physiological causes: heart disease, blocked blood vessels (atherosclerosis), high cholesterol, high blood pressure, diabetes, obesity, smoking and alcohol abuse, and drug abuse can also lead to erectile dysfunction. In this case, impotence will usually improve when the medication is stopped or the condition improves. 2. Proper treatment ① Medication: Medications for erectile dysfunction include sildenafil (Viagra), tadalafil (Cialis), vardenafil (Elidel), and avanafil (Stendra). These drugs increase blood flow to the dingus, making it easier to achieve and maintain an erection. However, the dosage, duration of effect and side effects of each of these drugs vary. Therefore, it is important to listen to your doctor about which medication to take and how much to take, and not to take it on your own. ②Surgical treatment: If medication does not work, then you can try surgical treatment. Simply put, a semi-steel prosthesis or inflatable prosthesis is implanted in the male’s ding-dong, which has a switch that enables him to freely grasp when he wants to be hard and for as long as he wants to be hard. The etiology of erectile dysfunction is extremely complex, and treatment is often slow if a single method is used, so comprehensive treatment can be taken. The biological-psychological-social medical model is the main axis to treat both the pathological changes caused by physiological factors and to correct the abnormal psychological state of the patient, which is more conducive to physical recovery. References: [1] Wang B, Yi C. H. Li RQ’s experience in treating impotence from liver and kidney theory [J]. Chinese sex science.2013,22(11):49-51