After a man suffers from impotence, in addition to should find a doctor in time to diagnose and treat, more important is the wife to cooperate, her attitude is directly related to the prognosis of impotence. 1, when the husband’s penis can not be erected or erection is not firm, the wife should be from the spirit of comfort him, to help him set up the confidence to overcome the disease. The husband himself suffers from impotence, the spirit is very painful, feel sorry for his wife. The wife must not blame him, coldly hurt or belittle him, which will make the husband more nervous, so that the loss of confidence and aggravate the condition, but should care for and considerate of the husband, work together to find out the reasons for the failure, to exclude the ideological fear of tension, so that the husband’s spirit uplifted, cheerful and happy, so that the condition will recover soon. Husband suffers from impotence, easy to produce a “sense of crisis”, the wife can not be under the “last” spy “”, such as “in a certain year before a certain date on a certain date on a certain date on a certain date on a certain date on a certain date on a certain date on a certain date on a certain date on a certain date on a certain date on a certain date on a certain date. Divorce” and so on. 2, to help find the cause. Impotence causes more, to help the husband to analyze the causes of impotence may lead to impotence. 3, pay attention to sexual life style. Sexual activity should have a trigger and preparation process, the wife should change the passive to active, control the number of times and frequency of sexual intercourse, can not force the husband to have ineffective sexual intercourse; sometimes, should be stopped for 1 month or 2 months of sexual intercourse, so that the husband to treat impotence, to be restored to the recovery of sexual function, and then resume sexual life.