In family therapy, for cancer patients with longer course of illness and milder pain, psychotherapy and physical therapy should be adopted to relieve pain, which are not only simple and easy to implement, but also enhance the confidence of patients in overcoming the disease and improve the enjoyment of life. 1. Psychological Suggestion Therapy This method mainly enhances patients’ confidence in overcoming the disease. Combining with various cancer treatment methods, it can suggest patients how to regulate themselves, tell them how to cooperate with the treatment and they will surely be able to overcome the disease, so that they can enhance the courage to live, complete three meals a day and carry out necessary rehabilitation training, so as to fully mobilize their own ability to eliminate the cancer cells to the fullest extent, and thus to achieve the purpose of relieving pain. Relaxation method of pain relief The whole body relaxation can block the pain reflection. Let the patient close his eyes, sigh and yawn, then lie down with bent hip and knee, relax the abdominal and back muscles and breathe slowly. Or ask the patient to close their eyes in a quiet environment for deep and slow inhalation and exhalation, so that fresh air into the lungs, to achieve the purpose of pain relief. 3.Physical pain relief method can be achieved by stimulating the skin around the pain or the corresponding healthy side of the skin to achieve the purpose of pain relief. Stimulation method can be used to massage, apply cool painkillers, etc., can also be used to stimulate a variety of temperatures, or 65 degrees hot water bag placed on a wet towel for localized hot compresses, each time for 20 minutes, you can achieve a certain effect of pain relief. 4, transfer pain method can let the patient sit in a comfortable chair, close your eyes, think back to their own childhood fun fun, or want to think of anything they want to think about, each time for 15 minutes, usually 2 hours after eating, and then to close your eyes and sit quietly for 2 minutes; can also be based on the patient’s hobbies, select some fast music, let the patient appreciate the side of the rhythm of the beat, clap, and so on; but also let the patient to look at some of the Jokes, humorous novels, say a comic for fun. These can achieve the purpose of transferring pain.