Children’s education from an early age affects the future development of the road, the child’s education and to be in line with the parents, then what should be positive family education? Come together to see the parents of eight key education guide it. As a modern parent, do you know how to educate modern children? Many parents believe that family education is to develop the child’s intelligence, that is, let the child from the age of two or three years old to memorize Tang poems, four or five years old to learn English, to go to school to hire tutors, tutorials, grades must be at the top of the list, and in the future must go to a famous university. It seems that only in this way can parental education be considered a success and children be considered successful. Practice has shown that this is a great misunderstanding of family education, and is the adverse consequences of the education for higher education in family education. The most important task of family education should be to build the Great Wall of the child’s personality. Imagine, if a child lacks knowledge of life, once encountered setbacks, the idea of life, no ability to dream, do not know what they want to do in the future, do not know how to protect themselves, do a doctoral degree is still being abducted by farmers, can not be shared with others, rich in money but not happy, then, even if the child’s school work in the first place, so what can be done? Today, the most important thing to change is the parents, is the parents’ concept of education. Then, what should be the correct family education? Parents should help their children to build a good platform for life, so that children have a good character cultivation, know how to be a person, know the true meaning of success. Only when the parents’ concept of education has been changed can our children receive a good family education and benefit from it throughout their lives. The first key, how to let the child set up an optimistic mindset? 1, accept the reality is the first step towards optimism 2, the cultivation of optimistic character, so that the child to face life’s misfortunes openly 3, so that the child to maintain a normal heart 4, the child to spend a lot of energy on anxiety, it can not play its inherent ability 5, a sense of humor may seem to be a “small trick”, but actually “The second key, let the child learn to be grateful, know tolerance. 1, narrow-mindedness will only make the child a lifetime of pain 2, have love, there is the power to seek knowledge and beauty 3, mischief will “cause trouble”, timely guidance for children to correct 4, the timely elimination of the child’s cruelty 5, know how to be thankful, only to grow The third key to cultivate the child’s courage in the face of setbacks. 1, the child is vulnerable, teach him the courage to face up to failure 2, cultivate the child’s willpower can not be ignored 3, the frustration of the child is unfamiliar with the child, it is difficult to integrate into the community 4, to replace the low self-esteem with self-confidence 5, always blame the child’s failures, the child will become “incompetent” 6, praise the child, but do not overdo it The fourth key to teach the children Self-protection. 1, teach children some general knowledge of safety, calmly respond to injuries 2, rely on their parents’ children, always inevitably fall 3, the child lacks the ability to deal with the world, at any time there is a danger of being swallowed up by life 4, overprotection, is equal to the “harm” 5, to improve the child’s “immunity”, to face temptation easily. “The fifth key, let the child dare to dream. 1, have a dream to create 2, do not reprimand the child’s “dream words” 3, the child has a dream, urge him to dream further 4, refused to ask the child’s “why”, is the same as cutting off the wings of his thinking 5, good treatment of the child’s interests 6, good at creation The child who is good at creation often has a Mercedes-Benz mind. The sixth key is to cultivate good communication skills with your child. 1, know the social etiquette of the child, can have a good relationship 2, the child is good at talking, the most bow l up the interest of others and attention 3, respect for others, is to respect their own 4, the child is brave enough to admit the error, then the error has been changed in half 5, the ability to cooperate with the knowledge is more important than the child who knows how to listen to the charisma of the child Seventh, the key to teach the child to use money wisely. 1, the earlier the child contacts and learns to use pocket money, the easier it will be to earn money when he grows up 2, the correct handling of the child’s year-end money 3, to develop the habit of saving, so that the child will benefit for a lifetime 4, to teach the fish, not as good as to teach the fish 5, to correct the child’s blindly compare the mentality of the Eighth key, to help the child to correctly understand themselves. 1, encourage children to take the initiative to socialize with others, to eliminate the child’s isolation 2, long-term in the shyness, the child is prone to develop a sense of inferiority 3, learn to appreciate others, will appreciate their own 4, so that the child every day to find one of their own strengths 5, know how to “give” will be “gained “