In pediatric clinics, there are many people who bring their children to the clinic because of nocturnal crying, and many mothers who ask about this problem. At this point, we would like to make a few suggestions that we hope will be helpful to parents. It is most common to find nocturnal crybabies for which no cause can be found, excluding diseases. Therefore, it is difficult to find ways to deal with them. Even if parents get some solutions from parenting books, nighttime parenting manuals, doctor’s visits, and consultations, they often have difficulty applying them to their own children. It is a fact that parents have difficulty finding ways to cope with their own children. Tired parents facing this reality can feel a sense of frustration in parenting their children. The truth is that there is little correlation between night crying grooms and parenting. Some babies don’t cry when they wake up, or they put on their diapers, or they feed their babies, or they simply fall asleep on their own without their parents. But some babies just cry and won’t stop until they cry enough, even though their parents do everything they can to help. If parents have such an understanding, they will not be angry with their children’s fussiness at night. Whatever the cause of the child’s nighttime crying, it is not right for parents to ignore it. Crying is a baby’s language, and when a child cries, he or she is communicating with the parent, who refuses to communicate with the child, which can greatly damage the child’s self-esteem. Although it may have a short-term effect, it is not good for the child’s future growth. I don’t agree with this negative approach. One mother said, “Last night, the child woke up crying again, and we ignored it, and ended up crying for ten minutes and then went to sleep on her own, which was a good move.” However, this mother did not think about the fact that this is not good for the child’s growth, and that the child giving in is distrustful of himself, which can also lead to distrust of loved ones and others. Growing up, this crisis of trust will make the child become withdrawn, difficult to get along with people, and poor social interaction skills. It is not a wise approach to let your child cry all the time for fear of spoiling him or her. Practice has shown that the more positive the parent’s response when the child wakes up crying, the shorter the time the child cries and the younger the age at which he or she stops making a mess. When a child wakes up and cries, the first reaction of parents is to ask themselves why the child is crying: 1. 2. Is the diaper wet? 3. hungry for food? 4. Did the child eat too much before bedtime? 5, the child’s stomach discomfort? 6. Is the room too hot? 7.It’s too cold? 8, indoor air is not good? 9.Thin oxygen? 10.Humidity is too low? Child’s noise is dry? Need water? …… If there is no answer, the mother will pick up the child or hold him in her arms, gently pat the child and hum a tune gently, the child may slowly fall asleep. If the child cries a lot, holding can not hold (this happens often let the child cry for a while, the child has been very wronged), parents should not be anxious, but also sound fine coaxing the child. Do not be upside down, and shake, loudly “oh, oh, oh”, than the child is also happy, which will make the child more difficult to quiet down. If your child has never made a fuss like this before, but this night is very special, think about the possibility of illness and call your doctor to consult if you need to ask him to take a look. If your child cries for a while, then quiets down, then cries again for a while, then quiets down again, think about the possibility of intussusception in infants. If the baby is a fat boy, or if he has had some tummy troubles in the past two days, you should be highly suspicious and it is necessary to ask the doctor to have a look.