What is the mysterious G-spot?

The G-spot, also known as the orgasm point, was first introduced in 1944 by the famous German obstetrician and gynecologist, Dr. Grafen Berg. Dr. Berg first introduced this concept, believing that there is a fingernail-sized area a few centimeters above the inside of a woman’s vagina where stimulation can help her reach orgasm. Current research suggests that the G-spot exists between the female urethra and vagina, 2-3 cm above the vaginal opening on the anterior vaginal wall. It is different to the touch from the surrounding smooth vaginal mucosa. However, the exact location of the G-spot may also be different for each woman. Before sexual arousal, it is the size of a soybean, while during sexual arousal, it swells up and is easily palpable. The tissue located at the G-spot may secrete a chemical that promotes sexual arousal. Rubbing the G-spot will allow women to have orgasms, thus helping to improve female sexual function and sexual life satisfaction. During sex, it is easier to stimulate the G-spot by using the back lying position, female on male, or female on male (the woman lifts her feet onto the male’s shoulders). But we should not be overly top worship of the G-spot, otherwise it is easy to focus too much on finding the G-spot, affecting other sexual pleasures. First of all, orgasm and the G-spot is not the same thing, orgasm is the physical and psychological pleasure response of both men and women in the process of sex, emphasizing the combination of love and sex, rather than simply find the G-spot, stimulating the G-spot. Secondly, every woman is different, not all women have a G-spot, and research suggests that perhaps only 10 to 40 percent of women have it. Each person’s sexual sensitivity point is different, and even if the same person is at a different age, or even at a different time of the biological cycle, sexual sensitivity can change significantly. Therefore, it is important for men to understand that each woman is unique and that the way to obtain pleasure should vary from person to person. All research findings can only help us to enjoy sex better, not constrain or bother it.