Orgasm is a gradually rising state of excitement and tension that occurs during the sexual act, which gradually reaches its peak as sexual stimulation increases and then explodes! The outbreak is accompanied by extreme pleasure and immense satisfaction, both physical and psychological. In the uninterrupted sexual stimulation, boys and girls can reach orgasm, but in the physiological structure, sexual psychology and a variety of factors together, boys and girls orgasm performance is also different. The male version of orgasm is simple and straightforward, manifesting itself in the form of unobstructed ejaculation! The reason for the emphasis on accessibility is that boys with ejaculation disorders have difficulty reaching orgasm through ejaculation, although they can also receive extremely intense sexual stimulation. Aside from the disease factor of ejaculation disorder, orgasms are generally easy to achieve in boys because they are more quickly aroused and, as long as the penis is subjected to constant, violent stimulation, orgasm is like Cao Cao, when it’s all said and done! The female version of orgasm When the female orgasm comes, the vaginal and anal sphincters will undergo involuntary rhythmic contractions, and the uterus will also contract and elevate, accompanied by associated muscle spasms, moaning, sweating and brief confusion and other physiological responses. Heart rate and respiration are further accelerated and blood pressure is further elevated. In addition, orgasms in girls are usually divided into clitoral and vaginal orgasms. Clitoral orgasms are generally easier to achieve because the clitoris not only has a superabundance of nerve endings, but is located superficially in the body, so it is more sensitive to sexual stimulation! Vaginal orgasms, however, are very difficult to achieve. There have been research studies that show that a large percentage of women have never felt an orgasm through their vagina in several years of sex. Oddly enough, men always want to do everything they can to delay orgasm, while women often want to orgasm but can’t, and sometimes have to “fake it”. Why is it so difficult for women to have vaginal orgasms? The reason often lies in these 3 points: 1, sexual arousal difficulties: compared to boys, girls seem to be more difficult to enter the state, sometimes the boys have finished ejaculation, girls are not yet fully emotional. The solution is a little longer foreplay, and then a little longer; 2, lack of skills: this is a two-person sport, the importance of teammates can not be overstated. Posture, rhythm, technique will affect the arrival of orgasm, so more friction, more communication, more attempts is the solution; 3, psychological factors: such as poor surroundings, difficult to enter the state, no contraception, protection measures, higher sense of shame will affect the orgasm. If it is caused by these reasons, you can make adequate preparations in advance, such as actively create the atmosphere, good protection measures, close your eyes, etc., try to enjoy it, so as to better meet the arrival of orgasm. In short, orgasm is a matter of two people, both men and women should be in the right frame of mind, more understanding of each other, more open communication, and constantly try, constantly grinding to better meet the arrival of orgasm.