A harmonious sex life can be helpful for back pain, which may be related to the enkephalins and oxytocin secreted before and during orgasm. Enkephalins are naturally strong pain relievers. A soft sex life can improve people’s tolerance of pain to relieve various ailments. Patients with low back pain should not give up their sex life; patients who have had spinal surgery should maintain their sex life as long as they walk 1500 meters without discomfort. However, patients with low back pain have sex and need to pay attention to softness. Female patients should take the hip and knee flexion position; male low back pain patients, take the female on male way, also take the hip and knee flexion position. This position can make the lumbar slightly flexed, can reduce pain, more comfortable. Can not complete the action of sexual intercourse, mutual touching, hugging, kissing can also convey the message of love and surname.