For centuries, epilepsy has been equated with mental abnormalities and mental retardation, making it a dishonorable disease that has been discriminated against and misunderstood to a greater extent than mental illness. The situation turned around in the second half of the 20th century, as illustrated by two of the most representative questions: “As a parent, do you agree that your child should play with a child with epilepsy?” The percentage of those who disagreed in 1949 was 25%, and dropped to 6% in 1979; “Should epileptics enjoy the same employment opportunities as others?” , with 35% disagreeing in 1949, declining to 9% in 1979. This change depends largely on the well-educated people in society, so the degree and extent of correct knowledge of epileptics is not yet satisfactory. Once patients know they have epilepsy, the stigma tends to make patients try to conceal their condition and pretend to be calm and socialize with their classmates and colleagues. The patient himself knows that the paper cannot hold the fire, and he worries all day that he will have a seizure in public, which is really like a needle in a carpet, and the psychological pressure is too much for him to bear. If this situation persists for a short time, the patient will lose confidence in his studies and life because he knows that one day his condition will be publicized and he may even become anorexic. A small number of patients go to the extreme of being externally withdrawn but internally anxious, distant from society and jealous of the harmony between others. As the attack is not controlled in a short period of time, they lose confidence in the treatment and have doubts about the treatment level of the doctor, and it becomes common for them to disobey the doctor’s orders and change the medication with their own ideas, hoping that they can find a “cure”. When such hopes are dashed, the helpless mindset is easy to fall for the tricks of traveling doctors and charlatans. One patient sold his house and cattle after listening to the advertisement of “three months guarantee” and used all the money he got to buy the “secret formula” medicine, and three months later he had the same attack and was almost on the verge of a nervous breakdown with no money. The patient’s mentality has become fertile ground for “charlatans”, which has been prohibited for a long time. Most of the epilepsy starts in childhood, when the young and ignorant person has no opinion about the disease itself. The attitude of the parents has a great influence on the mentality of the sick child. As parents recover from the sudden shock, shame sets in and they do everything possible to cover up the disease, leading to an atmosphere of mystery in the family. At the same time, parents are overly protective of their children and are afraid to let them do anything independently, causing them to grow up overly dependent on their parents and lose their ability to live independently. There is a 20-year-old female “child” because of epilepsy, only a relatively mild autistic seizures, the mother gave up work to stay at home to take care of her, and she sleeps with her, early to bed, the mother gave her a bath, take her to exercise, not leaving an inch, so that the patient’s ability to live backwards, Siwei also infantilized, this psychological Mental disorder far exceeds the distress caused by autism to the patient. When the child is not cured, some parents go from one extreme to another, lose confidence in the child’s future, adopt a give-up attitude, neither give the child active treatment, nor give the child education and guidance in all aspects, making the child deeper and deeper in the disease and poor psychological state, making treatment more difficult. The incorrect treatment of epileptic patients by parents and society makes it difficult for them to go to school, get a job, and get married. Due to low self-esteem, some patients do not actively seek employment, do not actively make friends and are afraid to approach the opposite sex. Not only are patients unable to actively contribute to society, but they also become a moral and financial burden to society. The only effective way to solve these problems is to increase scientific education to raise the correct awareness of epilepsy among families and society, and to respect and care for the patient in order to provide them with spiritual and substantive help. It is not only the duty of physicians but also the responsibility of the health administration to raise the awareness of the whole society.