This morning, I had breakfast on my way to work, because the store is in front of an elementary school, so every morning I can meet many parents who come to send their children to school. And urge the children to eat quickly, there are let eat more, and even breakfast time is not wasted to give children to do the work of thinking. The so-called often come here to eat breakfast really read parents ah! This morning, sitting next to me is a mother and daughter, the mother seems to be very young and talk daintily, I admire some parents nowadays, they are completely able to pamper with their children, the daughter is probably in the third or fourth grade. The daughter said it’s not good to eat so hot!!! After the daughter said several times in a row the mother finally spoke up and asked if she didn’t like it or if it was too hot to eat. Daughter said both. I think the mother is still quite organized, not bad, and the Chinese education of children should start from debating with them. But the conversation that followed made me lose my mind a bit. Are you not going to eat? What’s the matter? You don’t want to go to school? I heard a cold sweat, this mother linked eating and school, no wonder the child hates eating. Breakfast is for school, and if a child doesn’t like going to school he will probably hate breakfast as well, because the mother often connects the two things. Of course it’s easy to spread emotions, and I believe it’s likely to be counterproductive to persuade children to eat more. If my child were to go hungry once without eating, next time he would have the memory to eat and go again, and everyone remembers the experience of discomfort better than comfort, so he would naturally avoid it next time. So don’t deprive your child of the opportunity to grow up on their own, starving once in a while is not a big deal, many foreigners say that Chinese parents are too spoiled for their children.