What is “masturbation”? What are the advantages and disadvantages?

Young “ED patients” in their twenties, most of them are psychologically caused, these “patients” have a common feature, is that they believe that their erectile dysfunction is due to a few years ago, “masturbation The “patients” have a common feature, is that they think their erectile dysfunction is due to the “masturbation” years ago. It is clear that the psychological damage of “masturbation” is still plaguing many teenagers and even young people, so it is necessary to bring up this old problem again, so that we have a correct understanding of the problem and reduce the erectile dysfunction caused by it. The word “masturbation” is a common word in Chinese, although the English Masturbation Chinese people often translate it as “masturbation”, but the meaning of this English word and the Chinese “masturbation There is still a big difference between the meaning of this English word and the Chinese word “masturbation”. Masturbation is defined as “any sexually stimulating behavior directed at oneself, not only the stimulation and rubbing of the hands, but also the stimulation of other objects” by the famous American sexologist Kinsey (some translate as Kinsey). Some people also refer to this self-stimulation as a form of sexual power or release of sexual tension. It should be said that this self-stimulation behavior is a natural physiological or social phenomenon, there is no good or bad, normal or abnormal. Because normal men or women after puberty inevitably have to produce sexual desire and sexual impulse, in the life of a person to continue to release this sexual excitement and sexual tension under the action of endocrine hormones, and “masturbation” or called “self-sexual stimulation” Masturbation” or “self-stimulation” and “masturbation” is a form of releasing sexual excitement and tension, and this form of releasing has not yet been recognized by the whole society as the form of releasing sex between men and women. In addition, in human practice, there are various forms of self-sexual stimulation, and it is narrowly defined as “masturbation” only. Secondly, Masturbation is a neutral word in English, which has no positive or negative meaning. The word “masturbation” in Chinese has an evil and confusing connotation, with an obvious derogatory meaning. Therefore, using the word “masturbation” to refer to the “act of self-stimulation” is not very accurate and may lead to the inevitable misunderstanding that this natural sexual behavior is evil and immoral. The crusade against “masturbation” as a sin began with the religious fervor of the early civilization of Western Europe and North America, when the Church constantly taught that “masturbation” was a carnal sin, one of the most serious sins, and that “masturbation The sin of “masturbation” was even more serious than the sin of fornication, which could be forgiven, but the sin of “masturbation” could only be severely punished. In China, “masturbation” is also considered a sign of moral corruption and shamelessness, and juvenile delinquency and social and spiritual pollution are all related to masturbation. These sinful propaganda for masturbation makes most people who masturbate feel terrible and scared, which brings a series of problems affecting physical and mental health, and it is believed that “masturbation” will greatly damage the vitality and affect health. Therefore, some young men and women who have the habit of “masturbation”, the burden of thought is very heavy, every time after masturbation always think that they have done something wrong, want to try to restrain, but can not control, so they are in extreme contradiction and pain, some want to kill themselves, some mental depression. Many social surveys show that many people begin to masturbate from a very young age, some people masturbate because of the long-term separation of the couple’s life, and some people are divorced after the start of masturbation. There are also some people who live as a couple while masturbating to satisfy their sexual desires. Some people have quit the habit of masturbation after a period of strict control, but, when they encounter some kind of stimulus, they tend to relapse. Once the sexual urge, it is difficult to achieve peace without relying on masturbation, it will be manic and difficult to concentrate. The high sexual desire, but also affect the person’s mental mood and temperament character, so some people rely on masturbation to vent the sexual desire, and find emotional balance. It’s not a bad thing. Many people begin to masturbate, often with a deep sense of remorse, guilt, carrying a heavy burden of thought, repeatedly determined to quit masturbation. But they are often half-hearted, the habit is difficult to change, and gradually “self-rationalization”, find a variety of reasons to excuse themselves. From a number of sex life guidance books on masturbation, the views are also very inconsistent. Some believe that masturbation can lead to serious mental stress and mental baggage, and therefore, advise people should firmly abandon the vice of masturbation. Some believe that masturbation causes people to fall into an abnormal state of sexual excitement, which is harmful to the body and can easily cause forgetfulness, mental fatigue, metabolic disorders, etc. Therefore, in a physiological sense, it is advocated that masturbation be abandoned. There are also books that warn people that masturbation is mainly a psychological problem, masturbation itself does not have any damage to the body, the damage to the body mainly lies in the abnormal psychological state caused by masturbation, and when the libido is high, affecting appetite and sleep, it is desirable to adjust yourself through masturbation, the key is to put down the burden from the spiritual point of view. Some people do fall into uncontrollable mental anguish and loneliness on the issue of masturbation, and some, in the midst of busy work, because there are no conditions for a normal sex life, so with the help of masturbation as their own means of adjustment, once the need for sexual desire is resolved, you can devote yourself to work. The actual fact is that you can find a woman or a man, or have sex with the opposite sex, through masturbation. There are some masturbators, in the process of masturbation, can produce all kinds of strange associations, to achieve a stronger state of sexual excitement, to enjoy a kind of even in the normal sex life is also difficult to enjoy the wonderful realm. For some people who have had sexual experiences, they are often immersed in memories when masturbating, and can appear in the mind of their closest sexual friends, the more clearly imagined visible, fully imagined and rich, the more intense excitement can be achieved, and to a certain extent to meet the emotional and psychological needs. So, there are many masturbators talk about their experience when they say: masturbation is harmless to have, harmless to others, since you can not immediately enter the normal sex life, it is better to rely on masturbation to solve their own. The company’s main goal is to provide a good solution to the problem. Some even advocate that people without a normal sex life should be admonished to masturbate more through masturbation. In this way, social instability can be reduced, reduce sexual crime, and avoid all kinds of trouble due to the intricacies of sexual relationships. According to the results of a survey conducted by Professor Kinsey, a famous American male expert, among tens of thousands of teenagers, 92-97% of men and 55-68% of women in the United States have a history of masturbation. In the Soviet Union and Poland, 93-96% of healthy males have masturbation. Japanese literature reports that 30% of students entering junior high school have a history of masturbation, increasing to 80% by the age of 15. In a national survey in China, about 63% of men and 33% of women had a history of masturbation. These reports are very meaningful, and we can judge that the number of people who have masturbated is large, because in these surveys, a significant number of respondents feel that masturbation is a personal secret, and will never tell the truth easily. Therefore, the actual number of people who masturbate will far exceed the reported number. In his book “Psychology” (1974), Dr. Brno noted that “there is widespread agreement among psychologists, psychiatrists, physicians, and others involved in mental and physical health care that masturbation is not abnormal or harmful to the body. In his article “Sex and Youth,” Eddie in the United States states that if masturbation leads to bad consequences, it must be the result of fear. Because masturbation itself is never bad enough to cause disease, but the self-doubt, guilt, and fear that it causes is the root of all the bad consequences. To this day, some pamphlets are still propagating the idea that masturbation is harmful, making the theory that masturbation is extremely scary and harmful like a “demon” tormenting thousands of teenagers. Masturbation itself is not harmful, just as the “devil” does not exist. However, the horror of the “devil” has been passed down from ancient times to the present, and so has masturbation. The actual fact is that you can find a lot of people who have been in the marketplace for a long time, and you can also find a lot of people who have been in the marketplace for a long time. Of course, to say that masturbation is harmless is not the same as to say that masturbation is necessary, let alone to say that masturbation is inordinate. It is also good that you do not want to masturbate and are willing to quit masturbation. It is important to emphasize that “do not have a sense of crime and fear of masturbation, it is best to let nature take its course”.