In recent times, I have not been interested in the couple’s life, and I am not as impulsive as before. Am I sexually frigid? How do I know if I’m sexually frigid? The so-called sexual apathy refers to the lack of sexual desire, commonly known as the lack of interest in sexual life, sexual desire is reduced. It not only affects the emotions between men and women, but is also a threat to marriage and family. The symptoms of frigidity are mainly reflected in two aspects: physical symptoms and psychological symptoms. Physiological symptoms Women who are sexually indifferent, even if they are caressed, teased and foreplayed by their partners before having sex, remain indifferent, do not respond or do not enjoy the pleasure of sexual caresses. During sexual intercourse, the normal physiological performance should be: the vagina will take the initiative to secrete fluid to moisten the vagina during intimacy so that the male penis can enter smoothly and avoid vaginal tightness and pain due to sexual intercourse, but women who are sexually frigid do not have this physiological response. Moreover, they do not feel pleasure during sex, their senses are sluggish and they do not have orgasm. In addition, some diseases can also lead to female sexual frigidity, such as diabetes, clitoral adhesion, premature ovarian failure, thyroid disease, etc., while men with sexual frigidity or low libido are also mostly associated with long-term drug use (such as sedatives) or suffering from genitourinary system diseases, such as chronic prostatitis, epididymitis, urethritis, etc. These diseases can cause men to react uncomfortably during sex, thus inhibiting sexual desire. So friends when you find yourself suddenly have a tendency to be sexually frigid, you may want to go to the hospital first to do a health check. Psychological symptoms Due to psychological factors causing sexual apathy people generally have fear and aversion to sex, such as nervousness, uneasiness, anxiety, depression, distrust, fear, shyness, guilt, disgust, sadness, hostility, etc. They have resistance to sexual behavior, and some will even have psychological shadows, such as the existence of guilt about their past history of masturbation and masturbation. They mechanically regard sex as an obligation rather than an impulse born out of love, so it is difficult to devote themselves to sex; or indoctrinated by traditional concepts make them feel shame and dirty in the process of sex and unwilling to take the initiative …… These are the manifestations of sexual apathy. In addition, if the patient depression can also lead to the occurrence of sexual apathy. According to psychologists, the proportion of sexually frigid women suffering from underlying depression is as high as about 26%. Diminished libido is a normal phenomenon in middle-aged people, and many middle-aged women over 40 years old suddenly feel that their sexual desire has diminished or disappeared. Diminished libido does not mean complete disappearance, and temporary disappearance does not mean permanent disappearance. With a two-pronged approach to regulation and treatment, both physiologically and psychologically, sexual relationships can be healed more quickly and can be reconciled. References: [1] Zuo Qin. Women’s sexual indifference to check the five diseases [J]. Good health, 2009(6):46-46. [2] Anonymous. Female sexual indifference in which aspects [J]. [3] Li Hongjun. The 4 factors that cause men to be “cold” [J]. Chinese health care,2017(6):50-50.