For the post-80s who have special experience, they have witnessed the process of great changes and development of the whole society. With the passage of time, the post-80s, who were once called by various ironic names, have now entered the age of maturity. It is undeniable that they are still bravely carrying the banner of the main force for social development, rushing to the forefront of various positions. At the same time, the current environment around them has brought more problems than any other era, interpersonal relationships are extremely complex, the cost of living has suddenly increased, they inevitably shouldered the pressure of overload reality, as well as the environment, food safety on their health constantly infringement. In addition to hypertension, hyperlipidemia, fatty liver, diabetes and other diseases that can be seen and talked about, the widespread presence of ED among them has become a secret that cannot be told, and their health status is really worrying. Some studies show that 1/4 of new ED patients are younger than 40 years old, and nearly half of them have severe ED, indicating that young ED patients are also increasingly troubled. However, in the process of dealing with ED problems they are more blind, due to youthfulness, self-esteem, most people do not need the help of professional doctors, but to take self-diagnosis, with the help of aphrodisiacs to deal with the problem, has not received standard treatment, often may be occasional cases also become real ED. In fact, the psychological capacity of young more fragile, if the ED problem is not relieved. If the ED problem is not relieved, the long time in the shadow of the ED under the shadow of the mood, emotional depression, will lead to serious setbacks in their self-esteem and self-confidence, followed by the loss of passion for life, negative depression, and even depression and other psychological ills. Therefore, receiving ED treatment and restoring a high quality sex life is more conducive to the self-confidence of young men. For post-80s men, family and career in the beginning of the stage, need to be confident, maintain the passion and enthusiasm of young people should be put into life and work. The actual “fragile” sexual wellbeing is therefore to say “no”.