When it comes to oral sex, some people readily accept and even enjoy this sexual position, while others resent it and oppose it, considering it very abnormal. But according to the Kinsey Sex Report statistics, more than 90% of young couples and more than 50% of older couples have tried oral sex, both to enhance each other’s sexual pleasure, and to promote emotional exchange. Oral sex itself is not right or wrong, is an extremely natural sexual behavior, but whether it is male licking female clitoris, vagina, or female gulp male penis, testicles, oral sex should be carried out under the principle of voluntary, healthy and safe. What are the oral sex positions? How to please each other with skills in a healthy way? Let’s go through the male and female versions, respectively, to speak well. Oral sex for men, what to do? For oral sex, few men will refuse. The warm oral environment, soft tongue, and flexible strokes allow men to get more intense sexual stimulation than in the vagina. In addition, it will allow men to gain more psychological satisfaction. But on the one hand, girls are mostly in the male begging for oral sex, not very willing, on the other hand, do not know oral sex skills, get pleasure generally may also be injured. A man can make orgasm, so that women willingly oral sex, should do so: 1, clean: before you start, be sure to clean the penis and other parts of the penis, keep clean before better under the “mouth”; 2, wear a condom: yes, oral sex is also to wear a condom. From a medical point of view, oral sex is also one of the ways of transmission of AIDS, STDs, oral cancer and other diseases, wearing a condom can effectively avoid these risks. And there are already special condoms for oral sex for everyone to choose; 3, wet: first with the lips and tongue to lick, containing and other ways to wet the glans, stem body, testicles, and rotating tongue licking, and then sucking in different positions, will trigger strong pleasure; 4, containing into: the penis into the mouth, at first do not need to contain too much, contracting the mouth, sucking, licking, pumping stem body, repeat the action, but pay attention to collect some teeth, to avoid bruises;. 5, rub and jerk: in the process of the above actions, you can use your hands to jerk up and down the stem body that has not been sucked into the mouth, and then lightly rub the testicles, perineum, the root of the thighs and other locations. Oral sex for women, what to do? Due to traditional beliefs, oral sex is less common in women than in men. Either for shy reasons or out of low self-esteem dissatisfaction with the appearance and smell of their private parts, women are always shy to let their partners perform oral sex on them. But most men are very curious and yearning for oral sex for their partners, considering it as a sign of love and trust from their partners. So women should let go of the psychological burden and enjoy their partner’s oral sex as foreplay to enable women to enter the state more quickly. For women oral sex, you should do this. 1, clean: as mentioned above, you should wash your vulva before you start, but be careful not to douche the inside of your vagina to avoid gynecological diseases caused by imbalance of flora; 2, pluck the labia: you can let the woman’s body lie flat and pluck the labia first to reveal the clitoris and vagina; 3, clitoris: the clitoris is the most sensitive sexual organ for women (more than 2 times more sensitive than the penis!) The clitoris is the most sensitive sexual organ of women (2 times more sensitive than the penis!), lightly biting, sucking, licking will make women sexually excited; 4, vagina: after licking in circles at the vaginal opening, you can stick your tongue into the vagina to simulate penis thrusting action. There is no difference between right and wrong, normal or not, oral sex is the same as kissing and sex, in line with the natural behavior. However, we should pay attention to cleanliness before and afterwards, gentle movements not to get hurt, regular physical check-ups, and let go of the psychological burden to enjoy it wholeheartedly, you can also open a “new world”. References: [1] Song Weidong. Oral sex should also wear a condom [J]. Family Pharmacist, 2011(5):53-55. [2] Shu Xin. Health Expo,2007(5):50-51. [3] Wu Junqing. Safe sex (below)[J]. Chinese Journal of Family Planning,2014(8):574-576.