The female orgasm is a gradually rising state of excitement and tension with multiple forms of stimulation of the clitoris and other body parts, and when this state reaches its peak, there is an explosion of extremely pleasurable feelings, or orgasm. I. What is the female orgasm like? The female orgasm is a dual experience of psychological and physical. From a physiological point of view, a woman’s orgasm is characterized by an erection of the clitoris, rhythmic contractions of the muscles of the vagina, perineum, and uterus, and a blood pressure and heart rhythm that are almost twice as high as when she is at rest. In addition, physiological phenomena such as dilated pupils, increased skin temperature and redness, involuntary tremors in the lower extremities, and erect nipples and areolas may occur. From a psychological point of view, the physiological response will bring pleasure feelings. Second, how is the female orgasm produced? Women have an organ dedicated to pleasure, namely the clitoris. Unlike other organs, the clitoris does not have multiple functions; its only function is sexual arousal. The clitoris is very sensitive, with 8,000 nerve endings, about three times as many as the penis. By constantly stimulating the clitoris, the pleasure builds to a certain level and orgasm erupts. The vaginal orgasm is also homologous with the clitoral orgasm, which is stimulated by pulling the muscles around the clitoris during thrusting. Some people compare men to electric light bulbs, where the power is on and the power is off, while women are compared to electric irons, which need to be heated slowly, and the power goes out slowly. This is not unreasonable, but women are compared to a hot water kettle, should be more appropriate. The water in the kettle is heated slowly, the water boils and tumbles, and then the heat is slowly dissipated. Women’s orgasm is the same, the pleasure slowly climb until the orgasmic response is strong, the pleasure continues to stimulate, and finally slowly subsides, or boil again. Third, why is it more difficult to achieve female orgasm? Women’s sexually sensitive areas nearly distributed throughout the body, and the clitoris is also extremely sensitive, so why in reality, women’s sense of sexual experience is much worse than that of men? 1, female sexual arousal more slowly: with male sexual desire can be “straight to the dragon” different, women need sufficient foreplay to assist sexual arousal, after reaching a state of sexual excitement, can feel pleasure; 2, psychological tension is not relaxed: women are in a state of internal tension for sex, it is difficult to relax the body down, this In this case, not to mention the orgasm, and may even be too dry and tear injury; 3, the level of technology is not enough: women’s excitement and sensitive areas, it is necessary to use the appropriate skills to explore and discover, if a strong, can not trigger sexual excitement, it will not reach orgasm. Women’s sexual experience, and not with sexual desire as the starting point, and not with orgasm as the end. Let go of the obsession with “orgasm” and you may be able to have a better sexual experience. It is better to focus on emotional needs than on physical pleasure to make women satisfied. By not making orgasm the sole purpose of sex, and by not completing sex as if it were a task, you may be able to experience surprises that you have never achieved before. References: [1] Lise Bameoud, Shen Yirui (compiler). Deciphering the mechanism of female orgasm[J]. New Discoveries,2020(5):69-72. [2]Yuan Xing’an. Decoding the female orgasm[J]. Chinese sex science,2011(8):57-62. [3] Yang Jisheng. Orgasm helps women’s health[J]. Life and Companionship: New Health,2009(5):15-16.