Today I was asked what to do because I was answering a question from a patient’s family friend who was more hesitant because he thought the patient could not receive chemotherapy because it was too painful and life-threatening. If this patient’s family had asked me this question 10 years ago, I probably would have told him the risks of both chemotherapy and no chemotherapy and then let him make his own judgment, but that would have only confused him more as to whether the doctor was for chemotherapy or against it. Because we are doctors, we can’t take a stand, and statements with a bias will be used by patients as a push to enable a certain treatment, and if something goes wrong, the family may bite back. And the family is not very depressed, they have only a little knowledge of medicine, in the judgment of such issues seem so helpless, and this is their own relatives, any negligence may be regretful for life. That’s the feeling I want to share with you this time. The way to deal with these problems is actually quite simple. For the family, professional judgment is so out of reach, but how can the family know that many of the so-called doctors’ professional statements are actually specious, and how difficult and difficult is the task of giving the patient a choice that even the doctor himself cannot make. Why do we need to see a doctor, of course, for a better life, because we do not feel well, that assumes that you are comfortable, categorically will not go to the hospital to see a doctor. So, the purpose of our treatment is actually very simple: to bring the patient back to a comfortable state. So well, if the patient is not very uncomfortable now, that is, can be comfortable, then chemotherapy can wait, because chemotherapy is actually to make the patient comfortable, now I am comfortable, why take the risk after also with the same as at present. If you are uncomfortable now, then chemotherapy should be risky, some of the family members should be able to accept it, because if not risky, the patient continues to be uncomfortable, which we do not want to see. A final word on why the doctor should leave the medical question to the family to choose. This is actually a medical dilemma, and the medical community is divided, so in this case, the doctor will often seek the family’s opinion, because it makes sense to do or not to do, and everyone can reconsider. I hope every patient can recover and get back to their comfort.