Don’t attach too many social factors to STD treatment Most of the patients who come into the sexual medicine clinic have a hard time talking about it. Ms. Liu left a deep impression on me. She is a 45-year-old intellectual, a wide range of hobbies, cheerful personality, her lover is also a science and technology personnel, the two are very good feelings, a wide range of hobbies, life has a taste. However, last year, the unit health, found that her cervical scrapings appear precancerous lesions, and suspected of human papillomavirus infection. This is undoubtedly a blow to her head, especially when she asked the doctor what the virus infection is, the doctor told her that the possibility of sexual transmission, so she felt embarrassed at that time, she has always lived a strict style of life how she can not accept the STD. She could not sleep for several days at night: first of all, she thought that this is the unit physical examination, certainly the unit of people will know, how embarrassing ah; secondly, she felt that she did not have any extra-marital affairs, her husband looks so honest, is my husband infected me? But my husband also has no symptoms, I want to tell the husband will not suspect me ah? In addition, this disease is not contagious to the children ah? …… think about how I got such a shameful disease in this life, can not live ah …… Ms. Liu into my clinic, I saw a face full of haggard woman, I just asked you what happened? She was already sobbing: ‘Doctor, I can’t live …..’. She was already sobbing: ‘Doctor, I can’t live. I listened quietly to her account and said to her, “Don’t worry, you have a common gynecological disease, the disease itself is not serious, but you think too much.” Many of our patients with reproductive diseases actually have psychological problems that are much heavier than the disease itself. Sexually transmitted diseases are diseases that can be transmitted through sexual intercourse, but having the disease is not necessarily sexually transmitted for sure. Human papillomavirus infection is one of the common sexually transmitted diseases. In many cases, the virus infection can be asymptomatic and heal itself through its own resistance in about a year. However, some low-risk viral infections can manifest as condyloma acuminata, and long-term persistent infection with high-risk viruses may induce the risk of cervical cancer. Sexual contact is the main route of transmission, but there are cases of infection through other routes of contact: for example, unclean hands, unhygienic public baths, etc. It has been epidemiologically found that couples who maintain only one sexual partner also have the possibility of contracting HPV. Therefore, as a clinician, I advise my patients that it is very good if they can figure out the transmission route after they get the disease so that they can take it as a warning in the future; if they cannot, they should not dwell on the issue so as not to make themselves physically and mentally exhausted and have bad family outcomes. The body’s own immunity is the most important factor in automatically clearing some viral infections from the body. There is no specific treatment for viruses, but the body’s own resistance is very useful in fighting them. Mental fatigue caused by psychological stress can seriously reduce the body’s resistance. How to improve your own immunity? My advice is: do not attach too many social factors to the disease itself, keep a good state of mind, and properly relieve psychological stress. In fact, the disease itself is not terrible, but the fear is to infinitely expand the disease: how can you get a sexually transmitted disease? Is the husband unfaithful? What if people know about it? The actual fact is that you will not be able to get a good deal on your own. The actual fact is that you will not be able to get a lot of money for your own personalized products. …… psychological heavy burden! In fact, take a step back and think about it, just got a disease, like a cold and fever, treat it well. The couple faces it together. The actual fact is that you can find a lot of people who are not able to get a good deal on a lot of things. If it is the fault of a party, then the other party unnecessarily excessive blame, life will inevitably have bumps and bruises, eat a lesson, two people face the disease together, together to create a happy home. Learn to self-protection. People who have sex keep a sexual partner to reduce the chance of infection; women should learn to protect themselves and promote protected sex, that is, each sexual activity using condoms. Regular medical checkups are also important to detect some asymptomatic diseases early, and early treatment will be appropriate from the effect to the economic aspect. In addition, change the bad lifestyle such as smoking and drug use, strengthen physical exercise to enhance physical fitness; reasonable nutrition, balanced diet, to ensure the intake of essential nutrients in the body. Ms. Liu came to my clinic many times, besides the treatment, she said that after listening to me, she could feel better in her heart for a few days, and my clinic became a reliance on her heart, because she had no one else to talk about this matter. On the third time, she still felt there was no way to live. I said look around you, are there others who have not lived as well as you, you can help others. Finally half a year later, her review results came out very well and she looked much better. She told me that she had recently helped her classmates to reconcile their family disputes and figured out a lot of problems, and she thanked me for being her savior, but I said the savior was herself because she had overcome herself.