A depressed girl is usually sensitive and should use her empathy mainly to understand her, to support and encourage the depressed girl and to listen carefully to her thoughts. In addition, for depressed girls with suicidal and manic tendencies should, in addition to understanding, supporting and listening, persuade and accompany her to seek medical attention in time to avoid the aggravation of depression leading to accidents. Comfort depressed girls can refer to the following methods: 1, respect and understanding: depression is not only a psychological disease, to open the heart of depressed girls first to understand her pain, avoid speaking too much reason. You can change “relax” or “look away” to “I understand” and “it’s hard for you”; 2. Encouragement: When chatting, you should constantly convey positive emotions by praising and affirming each other. Depressed girls often have a low opinion of themselves, so you can keep telling her that she is great and that she is important to the world, conveying that “the current state is only temporary and the negative state can be changed” and giving each other hope; 3. 3.Listen patiently and encourage each other seriously after listening. Do not rush the depressed girl to adjust herself, but comfort her so that she will not be anxious. In addition, it is recommended to encourage and accompany the depressed girl to seek medical attention and cooperate with the treatment. Many depressed girls have poor compliance due to brain changes or adverse reactions to antidepressants and have difficulty in adhering to treatment, so they need more help and companionship to persuade her to cooperate with treatment.