Thank you letter – female partner had two fetal stoppages and male partner had high sperm malformation rate

       Course of treatment: I had two pregnancies in November 2013 and August 2014, but both times I was still not growing a fetal heart at more than 8 weeks, and eventually it was decided to be aborted after more than a week. The first time I thought it was a coincidence and I didn’t know anything about it, I thought it was just a bad quality embryo; the second time it still stopped, which was a big shock because I didn’t have any symptoms both times, but no heartbeat. After the two stoppages, my husband and I went to Beijing Three Hospitals for various tests, except for my husband’s high sperm malformation rate, but also did not find any obvious problems, and it was too difficult to get a specialist number there, and so on for more than two months, and then a bunch of checklists, and then two consecutive months of numbers can not be registered. Then I looked on the Internet and found Xiyuan Hospital. The first time I helped my husband to register the number of director Du, and then the two of us together in director Du side conditioning, said that the general effect of couples with treatment will be better so began the long road to seek medical treatment.          The first time I went to Xiyuan from March 19 to November 19, a full 8 months, I did not miss a single visit. I was still on birth control and didn’t dare to prepare for it because it had been less than six months since my last miscarriage. Dr. Du asked me in particular about various conditions in detail, prescribed soup and Chinese medicine, and my husband had a high sperm malformation rate, and prescribed acupuncture to start treatment. After 3 months of conditioning, Dr. Du suggested that I should start to prepare for pregnancy, but I was still nervous that it would not be good if I had one, and Dr. Du was very patient, saying that I should not be stressed, and that it would not be a big problem if I had one, so I started to prepare for pregnancy in June, but perhaps because I was nervous, I did not get pregnant for two months in a row, and I started to worry about how I could not get pregnant. Every time I went to the hospital, Dr. Du would say with a smile on his face: “Yes, we should have it this time, don’t be so nervous. Finally, at the end of September, I found out that I was pregnant, and I was very excited and nervous, so I went to the hospital to see Dr. Du in a hurry to keep the baby, because the first two times were too much. According to the progesterone value and HCG, Dr. Du felt that the hormone was a bit low, so he prescribed progesterone capsules to eat and soup to eat, and asked to recheck the progesterone every week. At 9 weeks, I went for a follow-up ultrasound, and the baby’s heartbeat was very good, and the doctor in the ultrasound room was very nice. The first doctor in the ultrasound room was also very nice, he knew I was worried and let me look at the ultrasound myself, and when I saw the baby moving inside, I really had tears in my eyes. In fact, at 9 weeks, Dr. Du said I could stop going, but because I was worried, I insisted on going until 11 weeks, and I still rechecked my progesterone every week and slowly reduced the amount of progesterone. Thank you very much, Dr. Du! Du Baojun, Fertility Center of Xiyuan Hospital, Chinese Academy of Traditional Chinese Medicine It is a long process to see a TCM doctor, and I got irritated in the middle of it, especially when I was not pregnant for three months and two months of preparation, I really felt tired and didn’t want to go back, but after a little more persistence, my baby will come. I didn’t see him get impatient no matter how many questions he had and how many times he asked them, and a few times he went to the extra number and waited until 12 o’clock, but he was still very patient with everyone, and there were people behind me, so I couldn’t even think about eating, so it was really hard! The assistant doctors are very good, especially the fat Dr. Zhu, after I got pregnant, every time Dr. Du looked at my blood test sheet, she explained to me which value had risen to when it was good, and when HCG dropped was normal. The assistant doctor, Dr. Cao, was very helpful in asking questions, writing orders and so on. I am so glad that I found such a good doctor who let me have my baby and passed the 3 months of early pregnancy smoothly.