Usually, ordinary couples in the face of sex life, always the husband will be more active. But after all, sex life is a matter of two people, a relationship in which if one party always take the initiative to show good, and the other party is always passive or indifference, over time, it is likely to make the relationship cracks. For this reason, many male compatriots said very distressed, his wife will never take the initiative in sexual life, will not love me? Is it outside someone? The other half of the indifference to let the men into the infinite blind speculation. So, the wife “not active” the real reason, what is it? 1, drug side effects Oral contraceptives, antihypertensive drugs, anti-anxiety drugs, acid-suppressing drugs and antidepressants can affect women’s libido. 2.Electronic devices influence Often look at the cell phone when lying in bed at night, it will lead to abnormal nerve excitement, lack of concentration, insomnia and other symptoms. Not only that, it will also reduce one’s sex drive. 3, life and work pressure Busy work and life pressure can lead to changes in female hormone levels, disrupting the sexual response cycle and affecting libido. Women want to change the status quo, the first thing should be done to rationalize their lives, at the same time to find ways to relieve their nervousness and anxiety, so that they can relax physically and mentally, so as to improve the sex life of couples. 4, out of shape out of shape body fat or pregnancy lead to body shape, will cause psychological pressure on women, which in turn affects sexual interest. Dr. Diweiler suggested that active sports to lose weight, help to enhance their own sexy recognition, improve libido. 5, overly obsessed with masturbation Excessive masturbation is prone to reduce the sensitivity of sexual stimulation, feel couples lack of sexual intensity, and then easy to lose sexual interest. Therefore, for women who have the habit of masturbation, should try to reduce the dependence on sex tools, and even completely quit masturbation. 6, disease Some women with low libido is due to endocrine problems such as thyroid gland. Fibromyalgia, anemia, diabetes and rheumatoid diseases can affect mood, resulting in fatigue or pain. Experts suggest paying attention to the symptoms of diseases and treating them early to eliminate fatigue and discomfort and restore healthy sex. Reference: Lu Chuanbin. Vaginal spasms: sex becomes sex “grief”[J]. Family Medicine,2021(04):44-45.