The so-called “first night”, that is, you friends in the first day of the year with the family to celebrate the festive night …… Ahem, just kidding. The real first night, in fact, refers to the first formal male or female “sex”. The first night for many people, is a very important thing. Especially for some female friends, they will take the first night as their “virginity”, if they really intend to give the first night to a person, then the other party must be a person she is willing to trust for life. The first night for many people is intense and romantic, it is like a key to open a new world, but also like a baptism before they are about to go into the world of adults. But in any case, for a first night, everything is unknown. Especially the unknown about sexual methods, safety measures and risks. For the first night, what should we know well in advance? One, always be prepared to condom Whether or not the idea, condoms must always be ready. Imagine that there is a chance of an accident, you have to send when the arrow is on the string, no condom in hand, this moment you do or do not do? It’s better to take precautions than to spoil the fun. Never, do not do without a condom. It is for your mutual health, not optional. If you have never used a condom before, it is advisable to practice in advance, otherwise you will be too busy to make mistakes and spoil the fun. Second, the expectation is reduced to a minimum Everyone expects the first night to reach the peak state, leaving a lasting impression worth remembering. But the reality will often give you the most painful blow, especially the opposite of what is expected of the situation, will instantly quench all enthusiasm and generate disgust. So the first night must be to minimize expectations, the only way, you will not have a huge sense of disparity caused by the psychological burden. Purely to feel the warmth and beauty brought to each other, then little by little progress of the surprise, in turn, make people satisfied. Third, both sides must be voluntary Many people subconsciously think that the relationship between lovers is more than normal, so it all depends on their own will, and then ignore each other’s feelings. Regardless of the fact that you have not shown respect, so the experience is definitely not as good as the heart is happy to come. The first step to having a good first night is always to ask the other person’s permission. References: [1] Anonymous. Newlywed men and women have 4 taboos on the first night [J]. Everyone’s Health,2016(05):79-79.