Just as many men have virginity, many women also have virginity to their partners, the virginity that we often say means that women want their partners and did not have sex with others, will take this standard as the primary criteria for choosing a spouse, which is a more conservative consciousness, may also contain a closed, resistant heart of the individual to sex, the so-called virgin, virgin is no Sexual life experience of men and women. With the development of the times, the Chinese and Western cultures continue to cross and integrate, their sexual concepts and the development of sexual morality is more influenced by Western culture. But in China there are still many people who will be entangled in the topic of “virginity” and “virginity”. The survey found that a higher percentage of women than men now consider it important for their (future) spouse to remain faithful before marriage. In traditional rituals, “sex” is a manifestation of barbarism, especially in the context of fear of sexually transmitted diseases, and virginity is regarded as a treasure for both men and women. It is an internal emotion that love should be pure and flawless, and that two people should be “complete” when they enter into marriage, and also equate “sex” with love, believing that complete love also needs to be reflected in the flesh, while the economic status of women has also given rise to a “virginity complex The rise in women’s economic status has also given rise to a “virginity complex” that confronts the “virginity complex”. The willingness to have sex is a personal choice, no matter how many times it is, it is a life experience. Moreover, no one can stand on the moral high ground and point fingers, people are free, not limited by virginity and virginity. For women with virginity, they can put forward their principles at the beginning of the relationship, so that the other party can feel your requirements in time, which is also more conducive to the development of the relationship. Of course, abandoning the traditional concept of chastity does not mean that you can indulge in sexual ideas and have promiscuous sex. Refusing to have premarital sex is a sign of respect, responsibility and love for yourself and for your future partner, and it is important to maintain our own principles as much as possible while demanding others. References: [1] Lian Qiguo,Zuo Xiayun,Lou Chaohua. Analysis of adolescents’ marital values and their influencing factors[J]. China Sex Science,2014,23(11):98-101.