Women want to have a full-blown orgasm, and men want to have it themselves. With constant sexual stimulation of the genital organs and sensitive parts of the body, the pleasure gradually climbs until it reaches its peak explosion. “When the orgasm comes, the whole body will be tingling, the mind is blank, breathing will be unconsciously held, the abdomen, private parts to the whole body muscles will be tightened, feeling particularly happy!” This is how a woman who has experienced an orgasm describes it. But the truth is not quite as it should be. In China, less than a quarter of women are able to achieve orgasm during “pistoning”, and even during sex, faking orgasm is forced to become a “necessary skill” for women. However, most women are able to have an orgasm through clitoral stimulation and can have multiple orgasms over a period of time. Usually, women really reach orgasm, there are several manifestations: 1, sexual flush: female orgasm generally lasts from a few seconds to dozens of seconds, and orgasm, the most obvious mark is the whole body skin congestion red, generally common in the face area, breasts, neck, front chest and other locations; 2, involuntary muscle contraction: part of the body muscles due to increased excitability and muscle tension, from random contraction to regular contraction to spasmodic contraction, as manifested by the body twisting, areola swelling erection, hands and feet involuntary spasm, clutching the partner or bed sheets and other objects; 3, vaginal contraction clamping: vagina, uterus and anus related to the pelvic region will appear a series of regular muscle contraction, and the lower third of the vagina will become more taut and narrow; 4, rapid heartbeat shortness of breath: by the central nervous Influence, orgasm, blood pressure will rise, the demand for oxygen will also increase, so there is a heartbeat, breathing faster; 5, increased secretion of love fluid: sexual excitement process, women will secrete the Baxter gland fluid, the vaginal opening is wet, and the amount of the amount, with the length of the sexual excitement period, the degree of excitement; 6, clitoral changes: before the onset of orgasm, “small beans ” will be engorged and erect, while during orgasm, the female clitoral head will retract back into the clitoral foreskin. Women are able to reach orgasm by stimulating the clitoris and vagina, or by stimulating the nipples and anal sex, so there is no need to dwell too much on the regret that the penis movement cannot reach orgasm. At the same time, foreplay skills, emotional state, external environment, physical health, etc. will affect whether the day can all reach orgasm, but also affect the degree of orgasm intensity. In fact, pleasurable, healthy sex is never forced to orgasm, and not only orgasm or not this one criterion. With a lover, enjoying pleasure, good cleanliness and protection, and allowing the brain to relax completely, it may be that once you turn the corner the sensations will come naturally. References: [1] Yuan Xing’an. Decoding the female orgasm [J]. Chinese Sex Science,2011,20(8):57-62. [2] Wang Tinghuai. Physiology (9th ed.) [M]. People’s Health Publishing House,2019. [3] Wu Jieping et al. Encyclopedia of Chinese sex science [M]. Beijing: China Encyclopedia Publishing House, 1998. [4] Yang DZ, Ma XN. Female orgasmic disorders[J]. Journal of Practical Obstetrics and Gynecology,2005(1):8-10. [5]Barry R.Komisaruk,Carlos Beyer-Flores Beverly Whipple.The science of orgasm [M]. People’s Health Press, 2008. [6] Tao Lin, Yan Zhen, Fan Ping, et al. A controlled study of female orgasmic response and sexual behavior[J]. Chinese Sex Science,2003,12(1):3-7.