Perfect sex life as a magnificent and majestic symphony, need a complete overture, climax and coda. If the foreplay is compared to the prelude, passionate sex process described as the climax, then the sexual aftershow is the coda of the song, although not as high and loud as the climax, but has a relaxed, quiet melody, long and deep have some flavor. Sexual afterplay refers to sex, the couple set aside a certain amount of time to continue intimacy, such as hugging, chatting, kissing, etc.. Appropriate afterplay, you can give this sex to draw a perfect end, but also the next sex is a good start. However, ignoring afterplay is a common problem for men all over the world. A survey in the United States shows that after sex, 32% of men immediately smoke or get up to find food, 17% of men go to sleep, 14% of men get up to go to the toilet, 9% of men go to the shower. Combined, 72% of men ignore this time after sex. At the same time, there was a study in China that showed 31.6% of women wanted men to continue to hug her after sex, and 25.9% of women wanted men to ask her how she felt. This difference has a lot to do with the different physiology of men and women. Men aroused sexually faster than women, and most of them have only one orgasm during a sex, so they want to rest or do other things after sex. And even if women have an orgasm, there is still a slow process of sexual arousal fading, when the male caress or words will give a warm buffer to the female psyche, can play a good role in soothing. If men do not understand this difference in the sexual response cycle, only to get their own satisfaction, the wife will feel that her husband took himself as a tool to let off steam, in the long run may have aversion to sex, disgust. Therefore, we advocate the afterplay as part of the integrity of life. After sex, both sides can hug for a while, but also to each other’s performance to make sure and praise, etc.. These are conducive to sexual harmony, but also for the next sex left a good expectation.