In recent years, the incidence of uterine fibroids and adenomyosis in women has been on the rise. Although most patients do not require surgical treatment, in some cases with severe symptoms, the choice of removing the uterus is inevitable. Is the uterus just an organ for the birth of a baby? On a functional level, the uterus is a fetal organ, and its main physiological function is to nurture the fetus. There is no point in preserving the uterus in case of serious disorders. Firstly, most of the uteruses that are in such a serious situation that they need to be removed belong to women who are past the age of reproductive needs; secondly, most of the uteruses with such serious diseases, even if they are preserved, do not have the ability to nurture a fetus. Therefore, in terms of function alone, we should not hesitate to cut off any uterus that should be cut. However, the reality is not so simple. Clinicians are often confronted with patients with benign fibroids or adenomyosis whose uterus is already very large or has caused very serious complications, such as severe anemia, dysmenorrhea, and inability to have sex. Although most uteruses are benign lesions, there is no doubt that such a huge uterus with such severe complications is not of any real value to keep. However, many women are still torn when they are told by their doctors that they need to consider hysterectomy. In fact, gynecologists are always very cautious about women’s uterus. As long as it is not a malignant tumor, doctors will not take the risk of recommending the removal of the uterus, unless the condition is really serious to a certain extent. Therefore, from the point of view of the disease, these patients should not dwell on it. The “uterus” also represents a certain “faith”! The “womb” – is a unique organ given by God to women, is the distinctive feature that distinguishes women from men, but also the spiritual totem of women can be proud of their daughter’s body. The “womb” is a “faith”, the “faith” in the womb, not only women have, men will also have. Removal of the uterus, for women, is to give up the “faith”, which called them how can not be tangled. In some countries and regions where economic and social development is relatively backward, the social and family status of women still depends on their fertility. In these areas, the removal of a woman’s uterus will be more serious than their lives, even if she will not have children. Gynecologists will do everything they can to preserve a woman’s uterus. For example, multiple fibroids, it is not new to dig out dozens of fibroids in order to preserve the uterus. Even if the preserved uterus is perforated, even if the uterus has no practical value, even if the patient may survive for a shorter period of years and have a worse quality of life because of the preservation of the uterus, they will still choose to preserve the uterus because it is their “spiritual belief”. The tragedy of the uterus is not far from us In our country, the majority of regions are not so backward, it is reasonable that there should not be such an extreme thing, but in fact, in some developed cities, knowledgeable women, they are still very attached to the uterus. Because they are not sure what life would be like without the uterus, even if their current living conditions are already very bad. I once heard a professor of gynecology tell the case of a 48-year-old woman with adenomyosis and severe menstrual cramps who underwent a total hysterectomy more than 10 years ago, in accordance with the principles of treatment. The operation went very well, and she was discharged from the hospital one week after the operation and recovered well from all subsequent follow-up examinations. However, a year and a half later, I heard that the woman was divorced. She did not say why, but presumably it was related to the hysterectomy. At the age of less than 50, she had to find another one after the divorce. The result of the repeated matchmaking, which ended abruptly when the other party learned that she did not have a uterus. The woman finally went crazy~~~ This incident touched the gynecology professor so much that he later did a lot of research on surgical methods to preserve the female uterus. I hope to avoid tragedy here. To remove the uterus, induce the “reconstruction of faith” is the way to go! There is no doubt in my mind that gynecologists should be extremely cautious about the retention of the uterus, but I will do everything possible to persuade patients and their families to give up the uterus if it is a serious health hazard and needs to be removed urgently. I think this is the way most gynecologists deal with this type of problem. Maybe some doctors will adopt some extreme language, “Your uterus should be cut quickly, or it will become cancerous!” “Your uterus is so big, it will die if you don’t cut it!” And so on and so forth. This way, of course, in inducing each other to make the choice to remove the uterus, will be very efficient, but it does not solve the individual women’s obsession with “uterine beliefs”. The operation may go well, but the psychological problems are not solved, and there are still many problems to follow. For women to willingly undergo hysterectomy, their “faith” must first be rebuilt. Women who are still attached to their diseased uterus are often lacking in self-confidence. They are either not strong enough in their own abilities, not strong enough in their self-belief, not materially or spiritually dependent on men, or filled with a fear of losing their youth. Before these problems are fully explored and cracked one by one, rashly removing the womb of such people may have unintended consequences. Confident people, even if they lose everything, will always be so confident! No matter what difficulties or dilemmas you encounter, you should always be confident in yourself (even though we all have had low self-esteem). Foolish people, faith in the gods of heaven; smart people believe in science; the most awesome people, are faith in their own. People, as long as they live, they must have self-confidence, self-confidence will have self, self will have aura, with enough aura to converge the world! If you feel that your life is incredibly difficult, the situation is extremely unpromising, you are afraid of change, afraid of hysterectomy, then who is not difficult and humble to live in this world? But the important thing is that we have to live first. Only by living, and living with quality, do we have the time and experience to interpret the meaning of life. What is the point of living a life that is entangled in the whirlpool of disease just to keep our uterus in the face of illness? If we face family breakup or unfulfilled love because of the loss of the womb. I think such a family and love itself is not worth being attached to. Whether he loves you or your womb; and whether you love yourself or your womb, these two questions must be thought through.