Some children will sit on the floor and cry when their demands are not met, pulling their parents to cry, throwing tantrums to express their dissatisfaction, which is actually a manifestation of the child’s capriciousness. Capriciousness is a common problem among children, but if parents let their children be capricious, it will affect their mental health and interpersonal communication in the future. The following six methods can be useful for managing capricious babies! 1, the use of “negative reinforcement” method capricious, crying, home education when the child capricious, some parents loud reprimand, intimidation, and even scolding, which not only does not help to solve the problem, but also may cause the child’s rebellious psychology, so that the child further use capricious behavior to fight with parents. Parents can use the method of “negative reinforcement”, that is, to ignore the method to deal with the child’s capriciousness. For example, if a child is clamoring for a toy or even rolling on the floor, parents can take a non-persuasive, non-explanatory, non-scolding approach to make the child feel that the parents do not care about his behavior. When the child has had enough and gets up from the floor, the parent can say, “We know you are unhappy, but you are such a good boy now that you are not making a scene.” And show pleasure, satisfaction and concern, reason with the child and analyze whether what he just did was right or wrong. 2. Show understanding emotionally Show understanding emotionally, but insist on his discipline in behavior For example, when it is time to eat, the child suddenly remembers that the favorite dish is not available today, so he gets angry and refuses to eat. Even if there are ingredients in the refrigerator, the mother should not accommodate the child to make it for him and should make it clear that when the meal is ready, it should not be changed casually. If the child continues to make trouble, you can let him starve, and when he feels hungry, he will naturally look for food to eat. 3, using the method of temporary avoidance Some children’s unreasonable demands are not met to pester, then, parents can temporarily ignore him, let him feel that the method of crying is ineffective, he will stop. Afterwards, you can talk to him frankly and let him explain the reason. At this point, the persuasion and education work will be carried out again. This method may be difficult to do for parents with a poor level of reasoning. 4.Improvement by example When the child has capricious behavior, parents can use the specific image, specific plot and behavior activities of typical characters in movies, TV or book stories to show or tell the child, so that he will be implied, inspired and educated. 5, interesting objects attraction method Parents can find some positive and cultivable psychological factors from the child’s capriciousness and motivation, the so-called “flash point” to induce and guide. This can protect the child’s self-esteem, of course, there are many ways to solve the child’s capriciousness, the key is to develop the child’s ability to recognize and judge things. 6, shift the child’s attention The child’s attention span is relatively short, parents can use this feature to find ways to shift his attention and change the child’s capricious behavior. For example, a child who follows his mother shopping, playing in the mall is very addictive. The mother is in a hurry to get home, but he just won’t go. If the mother says, “Let’s go home.” He may insist on playing at the mall; if the mother says, “Come on, mommy will take you to the car.” He may happily agree. Then the mother leads him home on the bus. Of course, because children’s capricious behavior varies widely, the solution to capriciousness should be implemented according to the individual and the situation, with the goal of providing appropriate discipline and increasing the child’s mental self-control.