“I feel so useless!” A mom cried to me on the phone like this. Why? Because her C-section baby wasn’t eating very well on her, and her best friend who came to visit pulled off her shirt and let the baby gobble for a while – why couldn’t I do that? The mom was very sad. I believe her best friend must have helped her personally with her own breasts out of selfless love for her friend. But is this really appropriate? Not to mention the risk of colonization and infection, the psychological trauma alone is enough to make a new mother cry. As a new mother, often breastfeeding skills are not skilled, and the baby is not enough, not as familiar as skilled mothers. If you see a problem, it is often counterproductive to pull out the “milk” to help. The actual fact is that you can find a lot of people who are not able to get a good deal on a lot of things. The first thing you need to do is to get a good idea of what you’re getting into. The “open milk”. The reasoning is the same as above – it does not solve the problem of “I want to feed my own child properly”, but also increases the risk of cross infection and frustration. The woman’s mammary glands are very delicate, so if you’re not careful, your hands may become “eerie fingers”. The actual fact is that you can’t get a good deal on your own. The actual fact is that you will be able to get a lot more than just a few of the most popular and popular items. Glory years, can be left to the endless world of the network, there must be someone to call for you, but today, please call for your best friend to cheer! [No] “tongue in cheek group of mothers” Clear officials can not break the family business. And, you are to see the girlfriends, not to see all the mother-in-law mother-in-law daughter-in-law sister-in-law, practical help to feed the child on (or help to feed on the help of reliable people), the seven mouths on a lot less. The most important thing to remember is that the most tired and hardest thing to do here, and most likely to feel left out, is your best friend. Please hold her hand, look her in the eyes and tell her, “You’re great, you’ve worked hard, I’m here for you.” [To help] How do you make your child cry? How to change the diaper? How to feed? As a “newcomer”, you must be the most skilled, do your best to give a hand! [To] convey confidence “You can do it!” “Baby can do it!” are the words you should say to your best friend. Share your experience too! Tell her that you will breastfeed together. Know how to ask for help Can’t handle a complicated situation? Remember to promptly suggest to your bestie to seek professional help. The earlier you ask for help, the less likely it is to be messed up, and the less chance of taking a wrong turn.