A life of happiness or misery begins with crying. The first cry of the baby’s arrival excites the mother, but the next one makes her anxious. So how can a new mother read her baby’s special language – crying? Physiological crying: After the newborn is delivered, the first cry is loud, and the subsequent cries should be loud, even and gentle. Crying can not only promote the whole body activities, lung development, expand lung capacity, but also help will say, sing the development of muscle tissue. So newborn crying is first of all a physiological need. The reasons for physiological crying, in addition to autonomic movement, are hunger, thirst, sleepiness, discomfort in clothing, etc. Physiological crying is characterized by loud cries, normal mental state and facial color between cries, and infants generally do not cry for a long time, and their voice tone is relatively calm. Psychological crying is also called emotion-dependent crying, as the name implies, crying with emotional demands, a way for babies to seek comfort from their mothers. After 6 months of age, the baby’s limb control is more mature and expressions are richer, so many physical needs do not need to be expressed through crying, so the proportion of crying to express emotions increases. When adults hug, it can make babies feel satisfied and happy, so parents should hug their babies more before they are two years old, so that they can feel loved, which has a good effect on their emotional development in the future. Pathological crying is mostly due to varying degrees of pain and discomfort in a part of the baby’s body. When the cry is abnormal, the mother quickly seeks a doctor. Scientific description of the 20 crying words of infants: 1. “Mommy, I’m hungry!” The child will move his mouth while crying, have a small action of sucking, and take the initiative to turn his head to his mother’s bosom in search of a nipple, or sucking fingers, eating corners of clothes, corners, at this time, if you try the baby’s lips with your fingers, the baby will involuntarily extend his tongue to make the action of sucking milk, and once fed, he will immediately quiet down. 2. “Mom, I’m cold, I’m too hot, my clothes are not comfortable.” If there is a sudden hot or cold stimulation, rough or uneven clothes, or too tightly wrapped clothes, it can cause crying. This kind of cry is louder at first, and then gradually becomes smaller, and there is general restlessness. Loud cries, red face, sweating, limbs thumping and stretching, at this time the body temperature rises is wrapped too tightly. Immediately loosen the clothes, change the position, wipe the body with warm water, change the underwear, diapers, and feed sugar water or breast milk in appropriate amount and the crying will stop immediately. 3. “Mommy, I’m scared! If you hear a sudden loud noise, the child may be frightened. At this time, you should remain calm and hold the baby in your arms and comfort him/her with gentle touch, and the crying will stop. 4, “Mom, I peed; Mom, I pooped, come to change the diaper!” When the newborn is stimulated to urinate or defecate: the crying caused by urination or defecation, accompanied by red face or forceful movements, the crying will stop after diaper changing. 5. “Mom, stop it, I want to sleep!” : The cry is very low, the eyes open and close at times, the cry is intermittent, and the cry stops when the baby falls asleep. 6. “Mommy, who bit me?”: When the newborn is pricked or bitten, he or she will fall asleep. : When the newborn is stung or bitten, the baby will appear paroxysmal bawling, intermittently, playing as usual. Adults should bare the child, carefully find the whole body and clothing, to see if there are spiky objects and bites. 7, “Mom, I want to hold, touch me ah!” : The baby is eager to be picked up and stroked by adults, and will cry when there is such a need. This cry is relatively small, the baby will often stare at adults crying, a little bigger will stretch out their hands to adults to hug, then you just tease, coax him to play everything will be fine. Generally speaking, newborns to about three months is more like to make trouble, some children like to pamper, like adults to hold, this time adults should be appropriate to moderate the time to hold, not to let the child develop a habit of being held. Especially after feeding the best to put the child down to sleep. 8, “Mom, you do not leave! Mom, don’t take away the toys!” When the mother suddenly leaves or loses a beloved toy, the baby’s cries will be loud at first, then gradually weaken, and there will be a pained expression, accompanied by tears, or a lazy mood of listlessness. When the baby cries, the general condition is good, the face is rosy, the limbs move freely, the reflexes are normal, the cry is of different lengths and heights, there is no sense of rhythm, the cry often stops and stops, the eyes open and look to the right and left, when the mother comes to the baby, the cry stops, the eyes stare at your mother, anxious look, but there is still a humming sound, the small lips are curled up. Most mothers know that picking their babies up and putting them on their shoulders can make them quiet and open their eyes immediately, probably because newborns are used to hearing their mother’s heartbeat inside the mother’s body, but instead they can hear a rhythmic heartbeat on their shoulders and feel safe. Some scientific studies have shown that when the mother is not present, there are toys around the baby and no toys around, there is a significant difference in the performance of the baby’s sense of security. 9, “Mom, I want this; Mom, I want that”: the baby will also cry with the intentional request, this cry in the hope of achieving a certain purpose, accompanied by stirring feet, chest, shaking head, rolling on the ground and dry howling behavior, if ignored, its cry will gradually weaken and stop. 10. “Mom, I want this; Mom, I’m scared without you!” : The cries of babies who are difficult to bring up are often the cries of psychological needs, and these babies are easily frightened because of their sensitive character or high insistence and poor adaptability. 11. “Mom, my intestines are bad?” : Crying that occurs when the baby’s intestinal function is disturbed. Mostly at night, in addition to irritable crying, also accompanied by flushed face, but white around the mouth, abdominal distension, severe double fist clenching, legs flexed, cold hands and feet. It usually lasts for several minutes or tens of minutes. 12 “Mom, my stomach hurts!” : Acute intestinal inflammation, indigestion, intestinal parasites, etc. can produce abdominal pain and make the infant cry. The crying is paroxysmal, starting and ending with the appearance of abdominal pain and relieving it. When crying, pale, cold sweat, vomiting, diarrhea, do not let people press the abdomen, a touch abdomen immediately cry; intestinal spasms: this infant crying is characterized by a burst, pacifier and mother’s embrace can not make the baby quiet;, intestinal entrapment: mostly in 4 to 10 months of age infants, often manifested as a sudden howling restless, accompanied by pale, sweating and other symptoms. 13. “Mommy, I have pain in my ear!” : Scabies in the external ear canal or otitis media: Infants are prone to overflowing milk, and when milk flows into the external ear canal, they are prone to get otitis media. At this time, the baby will cry and feverishly, and cry more dramatically when the hand presses the ear. 14. “Mommy, am I malnourished?” : Weak crying, pale face, thinning hair, rare smiling face. 15.”Mom, I want to take calcium.” The baby cries most at night when it has rickets, and is known as a “night crier”, and convulsions can occur in severe cases. In addition to crying, the infant is sweaty, easily frightened, restless, hair loss behind the pillow. 16. “Mom, my mouth hurts; Mom, my nose is not ventilated!” : oral inflammation: if the child cries while eating milk and often drools, inflammation should be considered; when the baby has acute tonsillitis, it will cry and fuss, accompanied by fever, refusal of milk, and even more crying at night; when the baby has a cold, nasal congestion will make the baby feel irritable and cry; if accompanied by nasal flapping, triple concave sign, bruising in the facial triangle, pale face, temperature not rising, cold extremities, and slow reaction, it means there is Respiratory tract infection’ is serious’ most of them are pneumonia or cardiac insufficiency performance. 17, “Mom, I’m hurt!” : If you touch a part of the baby’s body and cry, see if the skin has broken, abscesses, erosion, special concern for fractures or dislocations. 18. “Mommy, I have a fever”: When the baby cries when he or she has a fever, there will be a flushed face, and the baby will feel hot when he or she touches the baby’s forehead, palms, feet and other sensitive parts of the skin with the back of the hand. If the body temperature is above 39℃, the crying of the affected baby will instead decrease and symptoms such as difficulty in breathing, nasal agitation and bruising will appear. 19. “Mom, something is wrong with my brain!” : Newborns with intracranial hemorrhage or hypoxic-ischemic encephalopathy will appear to cry restlessly and irritably, with shrill and straight cries, less euphonious. At this time, newborns are poorly responsive or easily irritated, with full fontanelles, increased muscle tone of the limbs, and with the tip of the tongue licking the lips and other present. 20, “Mom, how do I cry like a cat”: there is a “cat-calling syndrome”, the most obvious feature is that the cry is similar to a cat’s cry, the affected child generally shows growth retardation, head and central part of the deformity, cry peculiar sound, skin pattern changes and other characteristics, and there are intelligent The child may have a laryngeal abnormality. The abnormal cry may be due to laryngeal dysplasia or may be related to brain damage. This is a chromosomal short-arm malformation with an incidence of 1 in 100,000, which is rare in China and abroad. There is no ideal treatment for congenital dysfunction in newborns with “catcalling syndrome”.