Many moms-to-be should have had the experience that during pregnancy there are many so-called experienced colleagues or friends to tell you some so-called parenting experience, including some parenting rumors, and these things moms-to-be how to distinguish their authenticity and sexiness? In recent years, rumors are spreading in another form, that is, the circle of friends. These rumors, you believe how much? 1. mother and baby sleep separately beneficial mother and baby sleep separately is really beneficial? The baby experts reminded new moms, do not believe that the so-called mother and baby sleep separately benefits. The newborn babies, if they leave their mothers, they will lack security, which leads to the little ones sleep unstable, plus they were just born can not be well appropriate outside temperature, the baby’s own physical ability to regulate the temperature is poor, the child sleep alone easy to catch a cold. Therefore, newborns should not sleep separately from their mothers, it is best to sleep by their mothers’ side, and if it is daytime then you can also consider letting the child sleep alone in a crib, and sleep with the mother at night. 2. child fever burn bad brain A lot of mothers will hear the child fever tiger discoloration, that the child fever is a very dangerous thing, at any time may burn the child’s brain. In fact, parents can not need to be so nervous, because the chances of a child fever burned children is very small, most cases of children’s brain problems are caused by disease, not just “fever”. Fever below 40 degrees does not affect the child’s intelligence, so parents do not have to talk about the tiger. When a child has a fever, it should be handled calmly and with less medication if physical cooling can handle it, which will help the child’s health. If the temperature continues to be high, it is important to take your child to the doctor in time. 3. child occipital baldness is a lack of calcium In everyday life we often see a few months old children have a circle of hair at the back of the head, jargon called “occipital baldness”. Many parents feel that this phenomenon is due to a lack of calcium in their children, regardless of the reason to give the child calcium. Of course, pillow baldness may be a manifestation of calcium deficiency, but more often than not, if the child is feeding normally and the supplemental food is in place, then perhaps the child’s pillow baldness is due to the child’s high body temperature, lack of ventilation at the back of the head, and frequent sweating, so parents should change the child’s small pillow for a clean one, wipe the child’s sweat in time, and pay attention to the ventilation of the child’s room, and the child will slowly get better. At this time, if you blindly give the child calcium, but to the detriment of health. 4. children do not sleep enough to grow slowly newborn babies generally under normal circumstances as long as the quality of sleep is good, sleep to about 18 hours a day can be healthy growth, not necessarily to sleep a full 20 hours to do. Many parents feel that children must sleep more to help healthy growth, if they sleep too little the child will grow slowly. But in fact, there are many reasons why children grow slowly, some are due to insufficient breast milk, lack of nutrition, some are due to congenital light weight, slow growth, some are due to disease, parents need to find the cause before making a conclusion, rumors should not be gullible.