Ten irresponsible parenting methods, and then do not change, it’s too late! 1, the child wants to eat on their own, we say: get everywhere, the rice is cold …… mother feed! Note: the child’s sense of autonomy, the child’s hands-on ability is thus stifled. 2, the child some discomfort, we say: baby, we go to the hospital, a little injection will be good! Doctor, use some good medicine! Note: Our blindness and ignorance directly lead to the child to become a lack of resistance to the glass man, so that he suffers more sickness and medical trauma, so that the world how many more drug-resistant bacteria and incurable diseases. 3, children want to play with mud, we say: too dirty, not allowed to play! Note: Deprives the child of the right to play, extinguishes the child’s nature to play, blocks the child’s knowledge of things, and narrows the child’s space for exploration. 4, children want to wash their own dishes, we say: do not dirty clothes; water so cold; do not break the bowl …… Note: the child’s eyes originally like a game of labor, because you, pleasant labor has become a chore, limb muscle atrophy, no masculinity. 5.Children go to school, we say: you have to learn well, listen to the teacher, do not understand do not talk nonsense …… Note: children are afraid to ask why, afraid of teachers say, afraid of classmates laugh; children only know to accept, follow the crowd, no creativity, not even their own opinions and ideas. 6, the child said, Mom and Dad, I grew up, but also to do something that can do, we said: good boy, you read a good book on the line, do not want you to do anything. Note: An opportunity to train children’s sense of responsibility, the opportunity to be a top man (woman) Han so you extinguished in the bud, growing into a cowering person, an irresponsible person. 7, children do not learn well, we say: do you know how much pain mom and dad have suffered for you? You eat good, wear good, do not do anything, why even bad reading, you really disgrace us! Early to know …… Note: In the hearts of children, they do not see love, they think that everything you give turns out to be just a deal, they are just the private property of their parents, is just a tool for their parents to shine. 8, the child does not know through what way to think of gratitude, he said to you: Mom and Dad I love you, you work hard! We say: love what love, what do you take to love? Read a good book, listen to the words is the best love. Note: Love turns out to be so utilitarian, realistic and cruel! The seeds of love have withered without blossoming, and the ability to love has been struck before it is formed. 9, children learn very well, temper is also very bad, lazy surprisingly, we said: nothing, big is good, as long as learning is good, nothing matters. Note: We forget that a person must first become an adult to become an adult, we put the cart before the horse, the child’s sound personality training arbitrarily trampled on. 10, the child really is finally grown up, he is bigger than you, but nothing will do, nothing wants to do, he ate you no discussion. This time we are at our wit’s end, we said: when he became a family, have a wife and children on the good, but you finally found that the trouble is getting bigger and bigger, more and more!