Many little babies are too abrasive when they sleep and must be held to sleep every day, and as soon as they are put to bed, they will soon wake up. So I feel very hard, I do not know whether to hold it or not? Some babies cry a lot in the evening, how to coax is useless, this is why? 1, baby sleep instability, need to hold during the day to sleep for a long time, put to bed to sleep for a while to wake up, how to do? 1~2 months old babies need to sleep 16~18 hours a day, and 3 sleeps during the day. Some babies, family members hold during the day to sleep well, put into bed and wake up, in this case, you can hold the baby to sleep, the crib can be placed next to the bed at night, easy care feeding. If the sleep is unstable, you can wrap the baby with a cotton wrap to sleep, you can sleep more peacefully. 2-3 months old or less, because they do not yet have the ability to remember, do not worry about developing bad habits, but at 3 months can no longer continue. 2.Baby cries a lot in the evening every day recently, and no amount of coaxing helps, why? About 1/5 of babies have unexplained crying. Starting 2 to 4 weeks after birth, the crying occurs between 6 p.m. and midnight and takes about 3 hours a day. It is manifested by hard-to-soothe crying, stretching or stirring of the legs, abdominal bulging and exhaustion. When not crying, the child is well fed and in good spirits. This crying, the cause of which is unknown (called colic Colic), need not alarm parents and usually gradually decreases and stops by 3 months of age. The first episode may require the doctor to exclude the possibility of diseases such as intussusception or hernia. The cause of this colic is still unknown, and one of the following methods may be effective. 1. Breastfeeding the child, the mother does not eat irritating foods such as dairy products, peppers, coffee or onions. For infants with crying caused by food allergies, colic stops after 1 to 2 days. 2.Hold the baby and walk and gently rock him to help him fall asleep through rhythmic movements and physical contact, but avoid shaking the baby vigorously to avoid brain damage. 3.Wrap the child in a blanket to make him feel warm and safe. 4. Place the child’s abdomen on his knees and rub his back gently, applying pressure to the abdomen to help relieve pain.