What educational philosophy should parents, teachers, and schools each uphold? Companionship, reading, and really developing your child’s abilities will be important to your child. 1. For children, companionship is always important Children need companionship, but because of work, I don’t get home until late almost every day. In order to have more time to spend with my daughter and communicate with her, I make it a rule that I must take a day out of every double day off to spend time with my daughter. Take her boating, hiking, eating fast food, whatever she likes, try to satisfy and make her happy. I don’t usually make promises easily, and once I do, I don’t change them easily. No matter how busy I am at work, if I promise to go out with my daughter on Saturday, I will try my best to do it. When I have to break the promise, I will explain the situation to my daughter, ask her for forgiveness, and say that I will make it up to her twice as much next time. Parents and children should be friends with each other, mutual understanding is the most important. 2.Children should be encouraged to read books, but they don’t have to be required to read anything Reading is very important, and children should be encouraged to read more books. Reading can help a person improve his appreciation. There is this saying – reading may not always make you understand, but you can at least know that the person sitting across from you is talking nonsense. This is the greatest benefit of reading, not reading you may always be a state of confusion. Some parents like to have their children read according to a recommended book list, but the truth is that the books recommended by others, although very useful, may not be read by children. Only books that you like and feel interested in will your child desperately try to read it. I don’t think any book is useless for people, I think every book is useful for people. If I have to recommend, I think there are two types of books that may be worth reading: one is a historical book; one is a biography, which is also my own preference. The more you read about history, the more you understand, the more you feel you are an understanding person; biography has a special benefit, when you read a person’s biography, you will feel that you have lived a lifetime with him, and lived a different life. Each of us can only live once in one way, but when you read some biographies properly, you will find that you can live a hundred times, you can live a thousand times, there are all kinds of ways to live, and this is a happy thing. I know that many children are reluctant to read, and we have no good way to encourage or urge them to read, but only to say that let the child first try to read, even one or two, maybe he read a book or two, and then suddenly become interested. My father is like the sun and my mother is like the moon My moral education philosophy for children comes from my parents, who are generous to others and strict to themselves, which is the traditional “family style” of my family. When I was very young, there was an incident that left a deep impression on me. At that time, the family had a lovely flower cat, and the whole family spoiled it. One day, I woke up in the morning and heard the cat meowing under the bed. I rolled out of bed and found that the cat had picked up two yellowtail from somewhere, looking smug. I was happy to tell my mom and dad about it. But my parents took us to follow the footprints to check carefully and found that the fish were taken from outside the wall, and the other wall was the state-run vegetable market. Mom took me and the rationed food supply book, went straight to the vegetable market, told the aunt and uncle who sold the fish the situation clearly, and paid them for the two yellowtail. The result was that the cat ate two fish and my siblings and I ate two less fish. When I was in the third grade, my school organized a cultural performance, and I liked one of the group dances, “The Battle of the Tunnels,” but I was not chosen. I returned home sullenly and was discovered by my father. When I found out what was going on, my father, despite knowing the school very well, did not want to help me “intercede”, but laughed and said, “What’s a little setback? As long as you work hard, there are plenty of opportunities in the future.” My father’s smile melted the knot in my heart, and he cared about the performance with enthusiasm as usual. As a result, I was chosen for another song and dance program, “On the Road to the Army,” and I was asked to play the lead role, the instructor. That performance was a great success. After the school performance, it went to the nearby countryside and the army performance. At the end of the show, my father, as the political commissar of the army, went on stage and shook hands with the young actors, including me. That handshake was the only formal handshake between us, father and son, and it left an unforgettable impression on me because I felt that it was a man-to-man handshake, and my father’s hand was so strong that I felt an everlasting support and trust. I have come a long way with my parents’ encouragement, and with every step I took, I grew up a bit. I was still very emotional when I talked about my parents until after I became famous. My father was like the sun, bright and open; my mother was like the moon, gentle and boundless. They infused light and heat into our young hearts, giving no place to any shadowy psychology. This is a lifelong wealth. 4.Our education should give our children abilities, not just instill knowledge By chance, I came across a question in American world history: What would have happened to Europe if Genghis Khan’s successor, Voghodai, had not died in the first place? Try to analyze the economic, political and social aspects. One student answered: If the Mongol leader had not died in the first place, the terrible Black Death would not have been brought to Europe. If the Black Death had not occurred, the priest and nun would not have died. If the priests and nuns had not died, people would not have doubted the existence of God. If people had not doubted the existence of God, there would not have been the Renaissance in Florence, Italy. Without the Renaissance, Spain and southern Europe would not have been strong, and the Spanish Invincible Armada would not have been established. If Spain and Italy were not strong enough, Anglo-Saxon would have been strong 200 years earlier, Germanic would have controlled Central Europe, and Austria-Hungary would not have existed. The teacher finished reading and said, “Great, good analysis.” In fact, this kind of topic teacher is no standard answer, but we all have to think. People are developing abilities, while we are just instilling knowledge. What’s more, some teachers are simply inculcating “dead” knowledge. I read my nephew’s test papers, and I was shocked. One of the questions is: a spring night, a long-lost home, looking at the bright moonlight can not help but miss the hometown, and recited a poem? The nephew’s answer was: Raise your head to look at the bright moon, lower your head to think of your hometown. But the answer was followed by a big cross. The standard answer is: The spring breeze is green again, when will the bright moon shine on me again. The reason is: because it is a spring night, we should write this sentence with spring breeze. There is also a topic: “Rush”, a text written by the famous modern writer Mr. Zhu Ziqing, can you write down your favorite and most impressive sentence? My nephew wrote: “My days drip in the stream of time, without sound or shadow.” A nice big cross on the back. The standard answer turned out to be, “But, wise, tell me, why do our days go by without a return?”