Encountered mischievous, disobedient children, every parent will be a headache, not only can not let the child “wantonly”, but also can not afford to take “tough measures”. In fact, small children’s behavior is inevitable deviation, rather than criticism and confrontation, may wish to play some “tricks”, clever correction and guidance, so that children “become good”. For example: the retreat method, the method of excitement, want to capture the method, the method of diversion of attention. Below, for willful children, good children to tips: 1, parents in the education of children, the attitude should be consistent: if different views, but also to avoid the children, go out to discuss; 2, in the child willful, do not indiscriminately criticized, and can not scold the matter: and should be guided by the situation, patiently reasoning, to the child to explain unreasonable requirements can not be satisfied with the reasoning; 3, to divert the child’s attention to the solution to willfulness of the A good way: such as the child noisy dog, can take him to the park to see the monkeys, mischievous monkeys will shift the child’s excitement, so that he is free from the capricious; 4, if necessary, to a little “punishment”: such as the child cried really uncharacteristic, you can take the approach of cold treatment: Ignore him. Even if he does not cry, but also to continue to “cold” him for a period of time. When he is unable to calm down to take the initiative to accost close to adults, parents should seize this opportunity to point out that he is arbitrary unreasonable, let him promise not to do so again. Only at this time, the parents’ criticism is effective. 5, let the child more personality, less capricious: cultivate the child both personality and not capricious, the key lies in the parents of the education method is scientific and reasonable. So, what should parents do? Respect the child, but not to accommodate the child; Dialogue with the child on an equal footing: only by communicating on an equal footing can parents understand the real reason for the child’s request, determine whether the child’s request is reasonable or not, and make a clear distinction between the child’s performance and whether the child’s performance is capricious or individuality; Give the child the right to choose appropriately: Specifically, this includes two aspects 1. Parents should pay attention to cultivating the child’s sense of autonomy and independence in their daily lives: Such as what dishes to eat, what clothes to wear, what games to play, etc., all consult the child’s opinion; 2, parents can not let the child do as he or she pleases, they should pay attention to give them some restrictions: only in this way, the child will know that not all the requirements can be satisfied, and he or she must give up his or her own unreasonable requirements.