For the treatment of impotence and premature ejaculation, it is necessary to comprehensively analyze and treat, mainly to psychological guidance, and at the same time can be assisted by drugs. Impotence and premature ejaculation is mainly related to psychological and physical factors, such as fear of sex, dissatisfaction with sexual partners, lack of sexual knowledge, physical fatigue, frigid libido, etc., so you need to be psychologically oriented, understanding of sexuality, lovers and more understanding, more communication, do not rush to sex, you can touch more, more kissing, and gradually to achieve the erection of the penis as well as the strength of the penis. In addition, you can consider the use of lubricants, can avoid the vaginal dryness caused by the two sides of the pain, can reduce the fear of sex. Psychological guidance at the same time, you can consider oral medication, commonly used sertraline and paroxetine, etc., however, it is recommended to use the medication under the doctor’s supervision, do not use the drug at will, to avoid aggravating the toxicity of the drug.