5-year-old children do not listen can use the following methods: 1, should let the child have some more choices, because about 3-5 years old children may begin to sprout self-awareness, and even learn not to listen to parents, performance has some small rebellion. This time to give the child more free space, more children have some choice, rather than brutally order the child to do things, such as when the child does not eat or do not want to study, you can ask her is now to study it, or play 5 minutes later to study it, after giving such a choice, the child is likely to be better accepted. 2, should also give the child more encouragement and tolerance, for disobedient behavior The child should not be able to simply deny, but to know that the child has a sense of self, such as the child will easily say no to parents, but also easy to refuse to cooperate with parents and so on. This is the time to know that the child has a sense of independence, which must be given appropriate encouragement, and at the same time must allow the child to increase the ability to do, such as learning to clean up, do some chores within their ability, so that it is possible for the child to become more independent. 3, there are conditions to accompany the child, more take the child out to play, do a game, or take the child to do sports, are The above methods can be tried to increase the relationship between parents and children, especially to increase the friendship with the child, so that he trusts his parents more.