A child who has self-respect and respect for others must have first received respect from adults. If we do not give our children this respect, and are very rough with them, they will take it for granted that others should do as I say, and it is difficult to put yourself in the shoes of others. Please parents do not show these 5 bad habits to their children, it is easy to “inherit” to the child, to develop a negative character. 1. impatient with the child Some parents are usually busy, but not much concern for the child, think that the child to the teacher education is good. As a result, parents can’t help but lose their temper and show their impatience when they see their children making noise. When the child wants to be close, their own mood is bad, and will be disgusted to say: “go aside, do not bother me!” The author reminds: If the child gets a long-term rejection from parents, then he is likely to become cranky, do not like quiet, unable to focus, the slightest discomfort will continue to solve with crying. Some parents often quarrel for some trivial things in front of the child, but do not take into account the child. Usually, when you go out with your child, you will also fight with strangers to win or lose, and even swear words. The author reminds: our hostility and quarrels will provide a bad example of aggressive behavior to our children. When they find that arguing and fighting can solve problems, they will not be willing to listen patiently to reasoning. Then, how can parents ask their children to be educated and well-mannered in the future? Some parents are frugal and can’t afford to buy new clothes for themselves, but they are generous to their children and never teach them to save. When a child makes a mistake, the parents are not willing to educate him. Any request of the child is met with great effort, afraid to make the child unhappy. Especially the elderly also like to be very arrogant children. The author reminds us that this kind of “love” will make the child only know how to arrive, do not know how to give. Children may even demand a lot from their parents without understanding their parents’ painstaking efforts. Their desire will also gradually expand, thinking that their parents’ love is taken for granted, how to do is not excessive. Imagine that such children will be willing to care for their parents when they grow up? Some parents don’t manage their emotions well and complain when things don’t go their way. However, it is not expected that always complaining in front of the child will make the child find that in the face of difficulties, complaining about others than actively trying to solve the problem, seems to be more “comfortable”. But the problem has not been solved, only to harvest a bunch of negative emotions. The author reminds: children should learn to take responsibility, think differently to think about the problem, if the difficulties encountered in shifting responsibility, complaining about others, it is very bad for his growth. Parents should give their children a positive role model. Be lenient with things that don’t go your way, and show a sensible side in front of your child, so that your child will learn by example and become positive and optimistic. If your child wants to play games with you, do you think it’s a waste of time? Many parents have a lot of “work” on their hands, and accompanying their children becomes an important but non-urgent matter, and the delay is so great that the children do not want to be close to them. Some parents love to play with their cell phones, and when they are with their children, they only remind them repeatedly: “Have you finished your homework”, “Go do XX things for me”. And when the child is excited to share what he has seen, the parents are just a few perfunctory words. The author reminds: when the family life only work without entertainment, only housework without games, then also talk about a harmonious and happy family atmosphere? Children in such “indifference”, in the long run will become withdrawn, do not like to open the heart.