After the first two years of childbirth, more patience, but also to experience the baptism of quarrels; after the first two years of childbirth, then the beautiful memories, but also become a luxury of memory; after the first two years of childbirth, the wife’s eyes of the husband became lazy, the husband’s eyes of the wife, gentleness is not the same as before …… there is a heartache, called the first two years of childbirth. The couple who are in love again, there are 100 times in their lives want to divorce and 50 times want to strangle each other’s impulses. Half of them should happen in the first two years after the birth of a child. It is said that as long as you survive these two years, you can be happy for many, many years …… After the water broke, 28 hours before the mouth of the uterus fully opened, the second stage of labor and used four or five hours, the pain almost fainted. The second stage of labor took another four or five hours, and I almost fainted from the pain. Every second in the delivery room was a torture, except for the nurses and doctors. I wished my husband was around, he could hold my hand tightly when the pain came and give me the strength to keep going. The truth is, when I was in pain, he kept playing games on his cell phone and screamed with excitement in the hallway when he played through the game. It was heartbreaking to hear this situation. The side incision is relatively large, move a body are painful shivering, but always bear the pain pro-feed. One night, I couldn’t turn around, so I asked my husband to help me hold the baby and eat my milk for just 15 minutes. The next morning, people said with red eyes: “later or you feed the baby milk it, I can not stand to wake up at night, I have to work during the day!” When a mother wakes up at night for two hours and three hours, she never complains, but occasionally she lets you wake up at night, which disturbs your sleep! When you are almost out of the month, because the baby can not finish eating milk, and do not know to express out, causing mastitis. The lactationist couldn’t come to the house in the middle of the night, so I had to let my husband help with the massage. The result is that people knead for three minutes and then back off: “I will not be a lactation teacher ah, or you put up with it, wait for five or six o’clock I will go to hire the aunt to pick up, OK?” After giving birth, due to the imbalance of hormone secretion, coupled with the anxiety of being a mother, she got postpartum depression. In the first few days, my husband was patient and soothing, but in less than a week, he became impatient, and when I complained, he argued: “Why are you so unreasonable and become like a shrew?” After feeding, I forgot to take off the gauze drool towel, the baby tossed himself to cover his face, and cried out in fear. The husband scolded me for this, saying I was not worthy of being a mother. I also mouth that usually do not care about the child will not have the right to speak, he clamored that the child with his surname, without his seeds simply can not be born …… light mouth not hands, is every father’s eager to show their winning strategy? In order to have enough milk, I fish soup, meat soup, bone soup all kinds of soup fierce supplement, weight gain. One day when I saw my belly bulging, my husband did not forget to tease: “How did your belly become so big?” Postpartum women are very fragile, husbands, if you do not understand our sorrows, please do not rub salt into the wound again, okay? The first time the child had a fever, a high fever of 41 degrees, nervous I did not sleep for two days. On the fourth day, the fever subsided and the rash came out. Looking at my dull eyes, my husband not only did not comfort me, but also blamed: “I told you it was nothing serious, you are so nervous.” Why didn’t you say it was a toddler rash when the fever first broke? The child’s fever you have no heart and no lungs is just, we can not say this afterwards cool words! Almost every woman who complains about her mother-in-law has a long list of things that they say and do that seem to have the instinct to make people jump up and down. If your daughter-in-law goes to work, you say they don’t care about their children; if your daughter-in-law doesn’t go to work, you say your son works too hard. The mother-in-law, please tell me a Qiao Zong can go to work to make money, but also in the work time with the baby can be good? With a baby socializing almost all terminated. The company’s annual meeting can not spend hundreds of dollars to buy a dress, tube classmates borrowed a facade. The reception is scheduled in the evening, you have to take a few hours off with the family to go back late. The only group activity in a year, the husband also did not forget to tell never to go out party. I can say that my mother-in-law’s temper is spoiled by this kind of husband? The normal company activities can not be said? The woman has a baby, deserves the company home two lines? At that moment, the heart held a force, vowed to wean, to restore the previous good figure within three months. But once you see the child’s eager little eyes, again and again the weaning time postponed …… unmarried young girls ask: are heartbroken into such a, how still thinking about the second child? A: Because there is a profession called mother, it makes people indestructible, invincible, painless. When the child holds my face, with clear eyes staring at my eyes, incomparable trust shouted “Mom”, and more heartache became a cloud of smoke.