Impotence, i.e. erectile dysfunction, can be improved through sensual concentration training, spouse’s cooperation and emotional regulation. 1. Sensual concentration training: it can relieve anxiety and improve the relationship between husband and wife and sexual function. Sensual concentration training includes three stages: non-genital sensual concentration training, genital sensual concentration training and penile penetration training. Through embracing, caressing and other tactile stimulation means, we can experience and enjoy sexual pleasure, overcome the fear of sexual behavior, and establish and restore the natural response to sex. 2. Spouse’s cooperation: follow the principle of joint treatment of husband and wife as much as possible, sexual dysfunction is a problem of both sides, both sides can get help from sex therapy, spouse’s cooperation in the treatment is a very important factor for the effect of treatment. 3. Emotional regulation: exclude interference from behavioral requirements, anxiety factors or negative perceptions, anxious and pessimistic people often need to carry out systematic exercises in order to relax the mood, enhance confidence, improve self-regulation of thinking imagination, and no longer worry about the spouse’s sense of satisfaction. It should be noted that exercise can only play a certain role, impotence patients should go to the hospital in a timely manner, under the guidance of the doctor standardized treatment.