Ejaculation itself is a very complex process, consisting of a coordinated activity of several organs and systems of the central nervous system, peripheral nerves, gonadal secretion, and the genitals themselves. Premature ejaculation wants to be treated, not by self-awareness to control it, but by using drugs to improve it and to delay the ejaculatory impulse. So far Western medicine is recognized as Bilevel, also known as Dapoxetine, or you can use topical medications, such as anesthetics, applied topically to the genital surface to reduce glans sensitivity and raise the ejaculation threshold for the purpose of prolonging ejaculation. Chinese medicine is usually considered to be a deficiency of kidney qi and kidney essence, and generally uses drugs that tonify the kidneys and strengthen the tendons, such as Jin Kui Kidney Qi Pill, Right Return Pill, and Wu Zi Yan Zong Pill. In conclusion, ejaculation cannot be controlled with consciousness, just like humans cannot control their heartbeat or their insulin secretion is a reason, the more you think about controlling ejaculation, the easier it is to cause anxiety and premature ejaculation instead.