1. Focus on the person’s abilities and strengths. The disease has taken away some of the patient’s abilities, but he still has many of them, such as being able to wash his own face, sweep the floor, pull weeds, sing, talk, etc. Please focus on what he can do, and try to let him do the work or activities he can do. 2. Arrange regular work and rest and avoid frequent changes. Let the patient participate in household chores and family gatherings, so that he still has the opportunity to contribute and feel valuable. Daily walks and sunbathing can help improve the patient’s mood, physiological clock and nighttime sleep. Tang Yi, Department of Neurology, Xuanwu Hospital, Capital Medical University 3. Diet: Try to eat with the elderly, choose nutritious, light and good food, make sure you eat enough to eat well, and avoid foods that are harmful to the body, such as food that is too hot and causes burns, too cold and causes gastrointestinal discomfort, fish spines, meat bones stuck in the throat, etc. 4, under the premise of safety, allow him to do what he wants to do, moderate adjustment of their own standards and habits. Allow him more freedom and reduce the caregiver’s control over him. 5.What the patient would have done but now does not know how to do, you can remind him and lead him to do it first, and only do it for him if necessary. If the patient refuses, do not force him, but go along with him first, and try another way later. 6. Understand the patient’s past background and life experience, try to match the habits and preferences of the elders, and talk more about his familiar past in order to maintain his speech and promote pleasant emotions. 7. Maintain the patient’s dignity, do not treat him as a child, but love him as a child. Praise him more and take care of his face is an effective way. Within the acceptable range of the patient, more physical contact to convey the warmth of care. 8. No two palliatives are exactly the same, please respect the uniqueness of each patient. The patient’s condition will change with the course of the disease, and caregivers need to adjust their care according to their status. 9. Patience and love are important.