Part of the relatively infertile men in the short-term infertility still survive, time a little longer, the number of visits to the clinic, the doctor has changed more, a variety of treatments have also tried, is not to see the baby landing, will make their own mental more and more anxious, and even in the psychological will be a considerable blow, the loss of confidence. Some couples to meet the psychological needs of parents adopted a child, but when the adopted child gradually grows, the couple immersed in the joy of family, the surprise discovery that the wife “happy”, adopted a child as much as an unexpected solution to the fertility problems that have plagued the many years, which is precisely “planted flowers can not be. This is exactly the case of “planting flowers without any intention to do so, but without any intention to do so, the willow will become a shade”. Why is this? Research has found that psychosomatic factors account for about 5% of male infertility. It is generally believed that abnormal mental state can lead to neuroendocrine disorders and interfere with testicular spermatogenesis. Such as mental depression, frustration, pessimism and so on. In addition, mental psychological factors leading to male sexual dysfunction is also a common cause of male infertility. Therefore, infertile couples must recognize the importance of psychological influence, should not be too concerned about other people’s “concern and pressure”, need to cultivate “go their own way of conception, let others say it! We need to develop a healthy mindset.