Vacation is a happy thing for children, but parents are more or less a little anxious. Because during the vacation time, children are prone to develop some bad habits, which is a real headache for parents. Instead of waiting for the holidays and then spend a lot of effort to correct, it is better to prevent the problem before it is too late. Bad Habits No. 1: Sleeping all day long Sleeping occasionally is not a big problem, but if you sleep every day, sleep until noon to get up, that’s a problem. The most basic living routine is disorganized, along with eating, playing, studying …… and everything else. What’s worse, when the vacation is over, you have to return to the regular routine of going to bed early and getting up early, because the original biological clock has been disrupted, and need a period of time to re-adjust, how tortuous ah. The reason why sleeping is listed in the first winter vacation bad habits, mainly because it indicates the biggest source of bad habits during the holidays: disorder, is no rules. Technique: can not be completely in accordance with the usual rules, a little loose, occasionally do something that can not be done usually, but this does not mean that there are no rules for the holidays, but to have a “holiday rules”. For example, sleep this thing, the important thing is not what time to get up, but every day in a relatively fixed time to get up, rather than let him want to sleep to when to sleep to when. Bad Habits No. 2: “crazy” eat snacks for children, eat and sleep is the biggest problem. At home on vacation, all kinds of snacks are readily available, and during vacation, parents are more relaxed about it. Eat more snacks, the most obvious problem is not good enough to eat the main meal, some parents will be angry at this time, the dinner table has become a “battlefield”. Eating large amounts of food over a period of time can affect brain function. Will aggravate the brain to control digestion and absorption and other functions of the nerve burden, so that the adjacent control of language, memory, thinking and other intellectual activities of the nerves in a state of inhibition, new things, new knowledge is difficult to produce interest. Tips: With the same problem of sleeping, of course, you can let your child eat a little snack, which is also the joy of life, but it is best to negotiate a more reasonable diet program in advance, such as what you can eat a little bit of each day, how much to eat, how to deal with other people to give snacks, and so on. Bad Habit No. 3: “House” at home Watching too much TV brings another problem is the lack of activity, always nestled in the house, often accompanied by snacking bad habits. Easy to put on weight, not to mention the mental state is not good, often a lazy, bored look. Of course, this is also the reason for parents, afraid of children freezing, a little cold will not be put outside, in fact, is not right. Tips: Parents can take their children to the park on weekends, or arrange some physical exercise, even shopping is also considered a “sport”. Parents have to go to work, but also to ask the caregiver to take the child out to play, but also to encourage him to play with children of the same age in the neighborhood, children chasing each other, their own fun, but also to achieve the purpose of physical activity. Pay attention not to give him too much “can not”, hands, face, clothes, shoes dirty home to wash on the good, let him have fun when playing, do not frustrate the child’s enthusiasm. Bad Habit No. 4: “Addicted” to watching TV Watching TV is not really a big problem, as long as there are more interesting things to do, children are not too obsessed with TV programs. Children are not too obsessed with TV programs as long as there are more interesting things to do. In addition, if the child already knows how to surf the Internet, parents may also worry that he is “addicted to the Internet” or even “addicted to the Internet”. Tips: Watching too much TV will affect your eyesight, you will become stupid, sit for too long and not enough activity, etc. You may want to tell your child that this is a more respectful way than the simple and brutal “I do not allow you to watch TV”. Of course, these words may be children are tired of hearing, so the best way to “negotiate” with him, to come up with a relatively recognized program, because he personally involved in the development of his will have the will to comply. Bad Habits No. 5: do not study do not do homework A lot of parents think that the holiday let the child “relax relax”, do not have to participate in interest classes, this is a very good insight! However, for children who have been to elementary school, the school set up the holiday homework should be completed. In addition to the kindergarten stage in the learning piano, learning to paint and other small children, need to have a certain amount of time every day to practice, can not be arbitrarily interrupted, even in the holidays also need to adhere to. Tips: prior to discuss with the child together with a good schedule that everyone can recognize, you can stipulate the time every day what time to what time is the time to study, or stipulate that every day to have how long it is necessary to use for learning, or every day to complete how many learning tasks (such as drawing a picture, practicing a piece of paper words, etc.), but the specific arrangements for when you can be relatively flexible Bad Habits No. 6: Dependent Heart Originally in the kindergarten Originally in kindergarten, already will eat, go to the toilet, clean up things, winter vacation at home, especially in the case of the elderly or nanny care, and become dependent on everything. These “degradation” behavior, the child is not good. Tips: the child’s ability to do things, try to let him complete independently. For young children, is their own food, their own clothes, their own clean up toys and so on. Parents have to be patient, you can accompany him, but let him do it slowly, to convey the message to him is: “you can do well oh, I believe you.” For older children, or even the other way around, you can let him help adults a little busy, he will be because he can take some responsibility, and feel very proud Bad Habits No. 7: people crazy at home when they are good, once they take out, or relatives and friends to play at home, to the crowded occasions, it becomes capricious. Otherwise, it is crazy, shouting, or not very polite to others, or not let others speak properly, must be inserted, so that parents are very embarrassed; Otherwise, it is very “argumentative”, must be this, that, or else it is petulant, trickery, temper tantrums, so that people are very difficult to get off the stage; or have a very strong desire to perform, anything to “I want to”. Everything has to be “I’ll do it, I’ll do it!” Especially in other children’s occasions, we must all pay attention to him, say he is the best. Tip: The key to solving this problem lies in the usual way. However, even so, encounter a crowded occasion, the child becomes excited, is also a common thing, the parents only need to use a calm tone to simply tell him “to be polite”, “do not disturb other people”, and so on, can be. Be sure not to reprimand the child too much in crowded occasions, it will be very hurt his self-esteem, do not do not do! Bad habits No. 8: forced to buy things Parents usually do not have much time to spend with their children, taking advantage of the holidays, festivals, and make a strong effort to give him something to buy as compensation, which causes the child to want something bad habits, will promote small children on the desire for material things. There are also children will feel to buy him something is good for him to show, psychological scarcity by material to make up. Tips: to ask for things this bad habit, criticism and education alone is not enough, parents had better not use “buy things” this way to the child, do not let him feel that this is their “deserved”, but also please grandparents, grandparents do not give children to buy too many things, spend more time with him! Please ask grandparents not to buy too many things for their children, spend more time playing with them and give them psychological satisfaction, which is more conducive to the children’s growth.