Instead of taking steps to stop a tantrum before it starts, take the following steps to prevent it before it happens: 1. Avoid unexpected situations that might cause a tantrum to erupt and try to maintain consistency and regularity in daily activities. Give your child a five-minute buffer and adjustment process when there are changes in the activity schedule. Make sure your child eats and sleeps well before you leave the house so he or she is less likely to throw a tantrum over a minor provocation. Put away temptations that are hard for your child to resist, such as not leaving chocolate on the kitchen counter near dinner, so you can avoid triggering a war. Third, let your baby have a little control. For example, let your child choose what books to bring to the car, or what he or she wants for lunch. These small choices won’t make much difference to parents, but doing so will make children feel they have some control over their own lives. Make small concessions. Sometimes parents can make some small concessions, especially when it comes to something as trivial as listening to their child scream for 30 minutes, or they can choose to let their child watch 15 more minutes of TV. V. Distract your child’s attention. A child’s attention span is short and easily shifted. When the child’s face starts to turn red, twisted and distorted, the anger has been placed on the face, to lose no time to open a book or propose to walk together to the nearby park to play, to avoid the anger continues to gather, escalate, and lead to a temper tantrum can not be collected. Sometimes humor is the best way to divert attention. Making a face, telling a joke or starting a pillow fight may make your child forget what caused his anger. Sixth, teach your child other ways to deal with frustration. As older children begin to understand and talk, remind them as much as possible to express their anger in their own words rather than screaming. Seven: Praise your child when she does something right. When he still manages to stay calm about something he usually gets angry about easily, tell him quickly: Baby, you are wonderful, what a good baby for mommy.