In the process of growing up, babies at different ages will have a lot of parents wondered “why this” speech and behavior, such as more than 4 years old baby even said some similar “wife I love you” adult words. The baby in the public places on some of the “no big no small” behavior is very embarrassing to parents. 1, called parents by name We often see foreign children in the U.S. drama called their parents by name. But in the traditional concept of education, we have always thought that calling elders by their names is impolite behavior, although some parents for children to call their own names with a carefree attitude, and even encourage their children to call their own names, because they believe that this can develop the child’s sense of independence. Children’s “no big deal” behavior starts with imitation of others, especially during the language learning stage, when they quickly pick up on the way adults address each other. When parents hear their children call them names, they find it amusing and respond to the child, so the child doesn’t realize that he or she is behaving inappropriately, which is a form of invisible reinforcement for the child. You can do this: If there is a situation where the child calls the parent by name, the parent should pay attention to his or her own name language in front of the child, tell the baby to call the elders by name is impolite, and then guide the baby to call the parent with “Dad” and “Mom”, and call others with “Uncle” and “Mom”, and call others with “Uncle”. Then guide the baby to address parents with “dad” and “mom”, and call others with “uncle, aunt, old grandpa, old grandma”. For the child intentionally shouting, parents can first ignore him, wait for him to correctly address you, you will respond to him. 2, disrespect for the elderly in the eyes of the children, parents have a certain degree of parental authority, so in front of parents are not quite dare to do some “out of the ordinary” behavior. But grandparents for grandchildren are spoiled, so that the child constantly unilaterally ask the grandparents of his selfless love, he will feel that all this is deserved, do not know how to cherish. Gradually, the child will take out his grievances on his grandparents and behave in an unruly manner. You can do this: If the child takes out his dissatisfaction on the grandparents or behaves recklessly, the parents have to stop the child’s behavior immediately and ask him to apologize to the other party. Parents should let the child realize that the parents are very resentful and resistant to such impolite behavior. Afterwards, parents should also be on the child’s behavior just now to do “thought work” to help the child calmly analyze the error of his words and deeds, but also to teach the child how to properly express their emotions on the right occasion and time. 3, people crazy Every time the family has someone to do guests, the baby is particularly excited, behavior and usual very different, who do not listen to the words, sometimes chattering nonsense, do not know how to be polite. The baby’s “people crazy” performance may be due to the opportunity to attend such occasions is too little, so he wants to show himself too much to cause everyone to pay attention to; or usually too much constraints by the parents, and now the parents are in the way and inconvenient in public too much control over the child, the child will seize this opportunity to vent a hand. You can do this: in the home before the guests, parents and children can do an “education” work, to the child put forward some polite behavior requirements, do a good job of the law. Usually parents can take their children to other people’s homes as guests, or to educate the child some of the ways to receive guests, such as learning to call people, to the aunt and uncle pouring tea, the child has more contact with outsiders, the opportunity to entertain guests, will gradually form a good habit of polite hospitality. If the child appeared “people crazy” behavior, parents or try not to harshly criticize the child in front of the crowd, so as not to frustrate his self-esteem, parents can use eyes or language to remind the child to pay attention to the behavior, tell him not to forget the agreement beforehand. Afterwards, parents can have a summary meeting with the child to evaluate the child’s performance, pointing out what he did well and what he didn’t do enough, and such an analysis will help improve the baby’s hospitality behavior. In addition, parents should also do a good job in their daily lives to respect the elderly example, consciously and often in front of the child to express respect for the elderly. Parents can also make use of family days, birthday parties and other event opportunities to give children the chance to express their respect and care for their grandparents, and provide positive guidance and encouragement.