Is there a pure “friendship” between men and women? Of course there is! Even if a pair of lonely man and woman arranged in the same bed, and stay together for one night, this “pure friendship” is also possible. Of course, provided that these two people are in the “sage time”. What is sage time? In short, it means that a person is in a state of sadness, melancholy, and despair after a “fap”. After some “passion”, almost everyone will be in this situation, the only difference may be the length of time. In general, the “after” sage time lasts longer in men than in women. For this reason, the sage time is often referred to academically as the “male non-period”. For men, the period of inactivity, no matter what stimulation the other party gives, men are “unattractive”. This “weak” time, almost every male has to experience. Only after the end of the period of inactivity, to “revive” up. The research institute has done a lot of research on human sexual response and divided the sexual response cycle into 4 phases: excitement, plateau, climax, and fade. In the “fap”, the brain will secrete a lot of dopamine, it will activate the reward circuit in the brain, so that people feel “sexual happiness”. The actual fact is that sex is a strenuous exercise that consumes a lot of energy, and the whole body is tense. If you continue to keep moving, it is inevitable that your body will be overwhelmed. So, in order to avoid the tragedy of the extreme, after reaching the peak, the hormones in the body began to occur feedback regulation – dopamine release is reduced, inhibiting the secretion of excitement of serotonin and prolactin increased – into the period of non-existence. From a human evolutionary point of view, the mechanism of the period of inactivity helps to avoid the male in a short period of time by the continuous stimulation of the body response, resulting in excessive body burden. Some people should ask here, is the sage time only men have? Women do not have it at all? In fact, due to the difference in physiological structure, compared to men, women’s period of inactivity is much shorter, some even short to negligible. Many women want to “warm up” with their significant other after “fapping”, but they are often “rejected with indifference” because the other party has entered the sage time, but objectively speaking The actual fact is that this is not a deliberate attempt by men to “deny” afterwards, but a normal physiological reaction. So, young friends, we must understand each other, to avoid misunderstanding Oh ~ References: [1] Cui Zhengkun. Sexual health [J]. Chinese sex science.2018(1):140