Seriously ill patients can visualize death as their friend and guardian of life. Gradually, the patient will gain a new understanding of death and show deep respect for it. 1. Cancer In cancer, lack of respect for parents often plays a very important role. In the case of partnerships, a lack of respect for the other person can also lead to cancer. Alcohol and drug addiction Alcohol and drug addiction are often the result of refusing to pick up love for one’s father. 3. Bulimia Nervosa In a workshop on family rehearsal, bulimia was dealt with by the female patient bravely saying to her mother, “Dad is as important to me as you are.” Truly understanding the importance of accepting one’s father is very important in healing bulimia. When a woman’s bulimic appetite comes on, Hellinger suggests that the patient buy all the things she wants to eat, then set them out in front of her and look at them with great interest. Before eating, she can visualize herself snuggling in her father’s arms and letting him spoon feed her into her mouth. Before taking each bite, she would look into her father’s eyes and say, “Dear Daddy, I have a good appetite around you. I would like you to feed me.” If the patient takes this seriously, just thinking this way can have a very good effect. 4. Anorexia In the family system arrangement about anorexia, we can often see that the father has left. The patient’s inner words in this situation are, “Dear Dad, I would rather it be me who has left than you.” In order to cure anorexia, the patient can say to the father, “Please bless me, even if you have left.” 5. Obesity The patient eats more than the body needs because eating means, “I live.” If the patient realizes that he or she can live, eating can return to normal. In order to be alive, prefer to eat more. Hellinger suggested that in obese people feel hungry when it says: “I live.” 6, depression Hidden behind depression is often contempt for parents. The more dissatisfied with their parents, then the person receives from their parents, the less things, the mood becomes more depressed. If you have a lot of respect for your parents, the depression is gone. 7, heart discomfort Heart discomfort is usually a specific expression of love is suppressed. Once this love is expressed, this discomfort can disappear. People often feel that this repressed love is directed at the partner, in fact, behind it often hides an unacceptable mother or father. 8, nausea According to the experience of home remedies, nausea is often associated with repressed feelings, especially swearing. If you let out all the words that have been repressed in your mind and imagine yourself staring into the other person’s eyes while cursing, the nausea may disappear. Fear of facing guilt, but can not avoid, which will also make people produce nausea. 9, headaches and migraines Imagine yourself close to other people, especially mothers, this will help reduce pain. The psychological cause of headaches and migraines is “repressed love”. People often feel that this kind of repressed love is directed at the partner, in fact, behind it often hides an unacceptable mother or father. 10, neurodermatitis A woman has a child with neurodermatitis. After a fresh look at the child’s symptoms, she realized that the child’s eczema was related to her resentment toward the child’s father. The more she resented the man, the worse the child’s condition became. When she realized the terrible consequences of her resentment and began to face her part of the responsibility properly, the child’s condition was cured. In addition, in marriages or partnerships that are still ongoing, this resentment against the other person can sometimes cause the child to develop the disease.