Some parents always favor a kind of education to bring children, in fact, different children, there are different character traits, different character traits, should be used in different ways of education, rather than follow the example of the gourd. 1, lively children Born smart and active, enthusiastic and cheerful, full of creativity, curiosity is also strong, not timid, talk and laugh. They are active by nature, but the attention is easily distracted, always difficult to do things well. They need constant encouragement, supervision and stimulation, and want to be noticed and recognized. As a parent, teach your child self-discipline, tidiness and the use of money, hug and kiss them often, and encourage them to do what they like, but never condone it, even if it is to your advantage (e.g., taking your money to buy you a gift). The active child’s every move is for fun and attention, and they must be disciplined by a team environment. The Power Child is strong-willed, energetic, courageous, decisive, commanding, adventurous, seeks challenge and change, has a strong desire for control, and has been gifted with the gift of leadership from an early age. He will gain control by losing his temper and will not stop until he gets what he wants, making him a good candidate for sports, adventure careers, and personal entrepreneurship. Power children’s greatest desire is to be the “boss”, and when things don’t go their way, they will get impatient and make a fuss. As a parent, you must be determined to stop your child from being dominant and doing whatever he or she wants, no matter what the cost, in order to avoid losing your authority or even being dominated and controlled by your child in return. They are very good at achieving the goal of controlling the whole family by exploiting their parents’ loopholes. Parents need to respect their strong inner need for fairness and justice and provide them with an environment where they can fulfill their potential. Keep them busy and take on some responsibility to fulfill their desire for achievement. 3. The perfect child Wisdom and intelligence. As soon as he or she is born, seriousness is written on his or her face, and as soon as he or she is lying in the crib, he or she will analyze and think. Adults will say, “He looks so smart, like a little adult.” They are the most creative and artistically gifted, generally interested in careers in music, art and design, literature, philosophy, photography and architecture. They are good students with high standards of self-discipline, do not need others to supervise and urge themselves, can do their homework quietly, and are organized in their studies and lives. However, they are not good at expressing their inner feelings and are sometimes pessimistic. Parents should encourage their children to develop expertise and hobbies, so that they know how to be grateful and face failure, speak frankly about their feelings and needs, and minimize exposure to tragic books, TV or music, lest they aggravate feelings of sadness and depression. The perfect child pays attention to details, pursues perfection, and wants others to perceive his inner needs. 4, the peaceful child calm and easy-going, self-indulgence, do not have to deliberately care. Feed him every day and go to sleep, the most docile of all babies. He grows up to be a good listener, but is indecisive and has no opinion. Peaceful child, will not openly rebel, but in quietness lies his iron will. Good worker and friend, suitable for office work and handling administrative matters. As a parent, you must discover his special talents and guide him in all aspects of his life. Read more books to him from an early age and play more mentally challenging games to stimulate his enthusiasm. Encourage him to participate more in outdoor sports activities such as wrestling and running. Communicate with your child calmly, try your best to relieve conflicts and fears, and let them make their own choices and decisions. A peaceful child craves for peace and tranquility, he looks forward to respect and recognition, and you need to let him know that you value him. Soothe your child’s stress and emotions According to your child’s interests and preferences, choose special studies in a targeted manner to avoid causing pressure on your child’s growth. At the same time, choose appropriate ways for your child to delight his spirit and soothe his emotions according to his personality traits.