There are a number of children who are timid, afraid to approach strangers and behave honestly. If this type of depressed children are guided reasonably, they will develop a good character of stability and patience, careful and quiet, but if the guidance is not good, timidity will be more and more intense. How is a timid personality developed? To drive away the imperfect side of a child’s personality, we must first understand exactly how such a character is developed. A child’s timid character is often caused by a narrow circle of life, improper educational methods, intimidation, and too many restrictions. More blame in daily life will also cause the child afraid to try and practice to gain knowledge and experience, and thus timid. If you as a guardian have no intention to do the above things in your daily life, you should correct your education methods. How to drive away the timid side of children? A. Support your child to do things boldly in a safe situation Give your child maximum freedom of movement in a safe situation. Some parents use an assertive attitude, hoping that their children can act according to their intentions, which is actually very selfish. Support your child’s boldness and independence in making choices and solving problems on their own, and be tolerant of their failures and faults in the process. At the same time, children should learn to face their fears, when the child is afraid, parents should be more encouraging. Be clear about what your child is afraid of and provide scientific explanations for what your child is afraid of. Encourage your child’s spirit of exploration and experimentation. Don’t put a ban on this and that. Parents should let go of their children and let them learn to grow. In fact, children are not as fragile as parents think. Train your child to drink from a bottle at six or seven months, learn to eat with a spoon when he or she is older, and let him or her wash their own socks and learn to use scissors when they are older. Children who have good hands-on skills are more confident. The actual fact is that you will be able to get to know your child’s friends, and take them out on trips, so that they will have a broader perspective and no place to hide their weaknesses. Create conditions to invite your child’s little friends to visit your home, so that your child more children interact, familiarize and play with each other, so that your child does not feel lonely when you enter school. Let your child interact more with children and also play with slightly older friends to gain more knowledge. Take your child into nature more often. When you have free time, take your child to the countryside, walk together, cross the creek, learn about natural phenomena, meet small animals, collect plants and so on. Parents should also treat people with a generous and cheerful attitude, as well as tell their children to take different ways of interacting with different people, and seize the moment to guide them in a targeted manner. When sending your child out, you should also prepare a protective shield for him. Show your child how to protect himself. When taking your child out, teach them traffic rules and other precautions whenever and wherever you can. Tell your children how to walk dangerously and safely, tell them who to call if they get lost, and remember their parents’ phone numbers, home addresses, etc. There are many children who are usually good, but when they encounter unreasonable bullying from their classmates, they only know how to run back to their mother’s arms, at this time, parents should ask their children the reason for their aggression, more understanding and explanation, if the classmates are indeed unreasonable, parents should tell their children not to be afraid, and support them to use the right language to tell each other that this is barbaric behavior and should apologize, while parents Parents should also communicate with the classroom teacher and the other child’s parents in a calm and polite manner. Do not expand the dispute so as not to cause anxiety to the child.