Most cancer patients experience a period of fear, pessimism, disappointment or despair. A large proportion of them can slowly adjust to their condition with the help of their family members or friends, face their condition frankly, and take active treatment and prevention seriously. However, there are still a small number of people who do not dare or are unwilling to face the disease, are frightened and disturbed, are miserable and embarrassed, and are unable to cope with the treatment and life well. Therefore, in our country’s reality, we take protective medical measures for many patients who are first diagnosed, that is, as far as possible to hide the patient, the treatment plan and side effects of treatment, the progress of the disease changes, etc. only let the family know, in the face of the patient’s questioning to take the cover-up, blinking, or incoherent, or simply avoided to talk about it. Despite the fact that a few people can benefit from the treatment, most of the patients have increased their psychological burden and feel cheated and helpless. Liu Peimin, Department of Medical Oncology, Henan Provincial Hospital of Traditional Chinese Medicine In fact, in the recovery process of tumor patients, a good mindset is crucial, and a strong backing (family, friends, or inner belief) often plays a major role. Therefore, we need your and my care and consideration, as well as the patients’ own sublimation of their understanding. In some cases, we suggest that he/she can slowly learn about the disease and gradually adapt to the changes of his/her own body, frankly face the pain of treatment and the torture of the disease, and enhance his/her understanding of the course of life and the changes of the society in the world and the ability to adapt to the changes. For some people, we also suggest that they can study the three major religions, such as Buddhism and Christianity, in order to realize their own peace and a certain kind of trust in the surreal, which is often helpful to their physical recovery! Each of us is often his or her strong pillar, you need to understand and appreciate the pain of the disease and some of life’s difficult experience, save a point of reverence, more compassion, the world will be more warmth and can support the arm!